This family cannot win, huh? Damned if they do, damned if they don't.
Look, I don't know them, or Aleah. I have read all 50some odd pages here. I've seen the 3 groups (2 mostly used for gossip and 1 on the verge of breaking down due to cat fights)....and their comments.
I don't know what happened. I don't know true the story. We all have just speculation to go on.
But it seems to me that anytime people get on a rumor kick, the family proves (or shows) another side that *should* put the rumors to death. Does it? Well, no...because now it's "well, I mean, why in the world would they do that?"
It's just upsetting. Aleah is missing, and most people just want to dig up and play some weird telephone game of "look what I found, look what I heard, can you believe this...?" - but the family comes to answer and address those moments and it turns to "why would you do that, who does that, yada yada"
I'm sure someone will get this and interpret it as "taking sides" - let me assure you. I do not take one side or the other. But, step back and look at this. Leave your thoughts and just look at the whole picture ....with Aleah missing and the nails so deep into wounds (no pun intended). Is it fair that people start one thing, the family addresses it, then it turns into even more negativity? Some of Cara's family truly seem like kind-hearted and good people. Then, there are those select few who have proven to be disgusting in their own right. Just like every family, there are things members do / have done, etc that the rest do not agree with.
If it comes to light that mom actually did have something to do with this, then I'll eat my words; like I said, I have my own speculations.
If she didn't, are any of you going to take the time to apologize?
If whoever did this ...I mean WHEN the one who did this is found, I hope punishment and slow and painful.
In the end, Aleah is who truly matters.