We have four of the stalking reports that were made.
I totally believe you.
We have four of the stalking reports that were made.
I don't think anybody doubts that Steven reported a stalker. Some of us, however, doubt that the stalker actually existed. We suspect that Steven's plan to kill Melinda for the insurance money was in the works for quite a while, and the stalker story was concocted by him in a deliberate attempt to divert suspicion from himself.I totally believe you.
And she doesn't have to reveal where she got her information since she is a Verified Poster....you can either believe her or not is my understanding...Kind of like the Verified Poster that said Melinda was pregnant when the other verified poster said she was not according to the Autopsy report...
I wouldn't blame Melinda either. I would, however, blame a strong, fit 35-year-old man for just sitting on his duff and watching while a stranger opened his door and tossed in a bag of lingerie. In fact I find it absolutely unbelievable that he would not give chase.I can't answer your question but I'm not about to blame Melinda for not running after whomever it was.
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I wouldn't blame Melinda either. I would, however, blame a strong, fit 35-year-old man for just sitting on his duff and watching while a stranger opened his door and tossed in a bag of lingerie. In fact I find it absolutely unbelievable that he would not give chase.
No she doesn't have to, but it doesn't lend to credibility to be evasive. I find SetHerSoulFree to be totally transparent. She has been so open about herself, and the info she shares always includes WHO was present and how they know melinda, or any other info she can provide, she is an open book. Prehaps that why she seems to me, SO much more creditable. (Aside from the obvious reason...) Starshine4u has not shared HOW she's related to SL, nor how they came to be reunited after not seeing eachother for two years or more, when she posts information she leaves out who said/saw what, when (unless it's to say "Melinda" did or said whatever. ), and I find myself instinctively unable to trust such an evasive poster...
Melinda told some of her friends she was pregnant. Maybe she thought she was. ( I thought I was at one time, I was quite certain of it, but as it turns out, I wasn't). Maybe that's why setHerSoulFree, felt she was, or maybe she was actually pregnant. I don't know...
Starshine4u, can I ask what your relationship is to Steve?
Steve is my nephew.
I think because it lends authenticity. By her own admission she didn't know them very well. Set her soul free is one of Melinda's best friends and by the nature of that relationship privy to more details about Melinda and her marriage. I find it interesting and yet frustrating that both have such extremely contradictory evidence. Melinda was pregnant, Melinda wasn't pregnant, Steve lived with his brother steve never moved out, etc. Is that common here?
I know Steve very well. I did not know Melinda very well.
If I was sitting on my couch and somebody started messing with my sliding glass door I would be on my feet at the first sound - and I'm a small woman. I think it would be human nature. Even if I didn't confront the person my flight or fight instinct would kick in - as I think it would for anyone. I simply cannot imagine sitting and watching while the door opened and a hand reached in and threw something. ESPECIALLY if I was being stalked. And we're supposed to believe they both just sat there? No. Just no.I also find it unbelievable that a strong and fit young man would not give chase. That is, unless he knew that whoever threw in the bag of lingerie posed no threat to him.
I deleted my last post because you answered their questions...I don't know why you even had to but Thank You...
I don't think anybody doubts that Steven reported a stalker. Some of us, however, doubt that the stalker actually existed. We suspect that Steven's plan to kill Melinda for the insurance money was in the works for quite a while, and the stalker story was concocted by him in a deliberate attempt to divert suspicion from himself.
I wouldn't blame Melinda either. I would, however, blame a strong, fit 35-year-old man for just sitting on his duff and watching while a stranger opened his door and tossed in a bag of lingerie. In fact I find it absolutely unbelievable that he would not give chase.
I wouldn't blame Melinda either. I would, however, blame a strong, fit 35-year-old man for just sitting on his duff and watching while a stranger opened his door and tossed in a bag of lingerie. In fact I find it absolutely unbelievable that he would not give chase.
There's no need to be so defensive. The moderators introduced her as SL's aunt when she joined the forum.