Yes - same guy. Had no pblm in the barn and playing with all of dad's 'toys'. He was driving that 4x4 on the front road.... REALLY FAST... and pps at the house were commenting on how he's acting very strange...
YEP.... oK... so we are not out of our minds for questioning this behavior??? from the very person who (mind you) was LIVING with their daughter... unwed... dating for at least 1 1/2.... WORKED with the very people who were murdered.... broke bread with the very souls... was going to marry the victims' daughter.... :waitasec::waitasec:
Fear is a very big possibility gaia227. I have thought of that very fact - and still consider it being a major factor...
The mention on topix of keeping mouth closed cuz of being on 'ground zero'..and who might find out if there is talk... makes me think there sure might be FEAR from 'A'...
BUT... the behavior during and after... the lack of compassion - the lack of respect..... just does not combine with someone who is unknown to facts and is in fear. I was told (by 'A') that her friends are more important and will help her thru the murders when I asked her to consider the help Kraft offered for couseling... She refused. Said it was too much work to make appointments...and drive there..
YOUR PARENTS WERE MURDERED and your worried about making appointments???? I just don't get that.
I HAD to seek couseling after all that happend... My friends and family just could NOT help... My DH had counseling becuz of his part and his love lost.. due to the murders... His anger was soooo out of control.. he needed help for US... our family. He needed to help ME....HELP US...!!
But making Meth in the very home sure does not show me there is fear from anything or anyone...
this is WAY after XBF has been out of the picture....
Who the heck knows...