IN - Terry and Darleen Anderson Murder, Mungo, 22 Oct 2005 - #3

[gaia227]

Rosco,
After reading s much and going over to AMW, I can't believe that LE hasn't had a grand jury on this. Also my husband is originally from Ft. Wayne and has relatives all over the place near Mongo........we actually have a lake cottage in Orland........about 10-15 miles away??? This is so sad. Wishing you more help.

I never thought about a grand jury before. My guess is they either don't have enough evidence to have a GJ (I tend to think they might) OR they don't want to have the GJ because they don't want their suspects to know they are suspects. I tend to think that if they did publicy name a suspect or suspects it would create some much needed tension and pressure on not only the suspect but their friends too. We are all pretty certain the suspect(s) are involved in drugs and if their friends think they might start ratting them out for a light sentence they might go to the LE first. I don't know, I guess that's risky. LE is obviously being very careful and holding their cards close. It is just frustrating. I really want to see something happen.

 

[cassiusleuth]

Oh no Rosco, I did say it backward, I totally meant this case will be solved. LOL. I was very tired yesterday, my little boy was not feeling well. So sorry for the confusion!!! I wish nothing but for this sad case to be solved for your family I promise!!!

 

[Rosco]

Rosco she was saying she does believe it will be solved too


She just said it back to front


LOL

Where are her children now Rosco?

:bang:dahhhhhhh - thanks Jane. I shuld have seen that.. and I was like HUH!?

Well.. Baby Terri is with the other brother of ours. He was a product of Dad's second marriage. I actually met him for the first time during the homicides. We don't communicate - by his choice.
It's all in the threads.
But - he has her.

"A" is PG with a new baby girl - per her myspace page. Not sure when this baby will be born. My assumption is very soon cuz she posted some time back that she was 6months PG.
Baby Terri turned 2yrs the begining of this month.

Praying new baby is not abused like baby Terri was. :furious: It's hard not thinking that but praying for her sake.

I am going to mention the GJ to LE. I sent an email regarding the EBAY idea and I never received a reply. It's like that most times. LE does not tell me if they like the idea or if they dont or if they had already researched it.
SOO most of the time I dont know what LE has up sleve.:waitasec:

:blowkiss:
Rosco

 

[Dark Knight]

"A" had her baby, a girl. And another sad situation, but I will let Rosco decide how much info to divulge. Just please pray for this baby, she needs it badly.

 

[cassiusleuth]

Oh no poor baby, prayers going up from me today. I was wondering where "A" had gone, she has not logged into her MySpace in a while.

 

[Cubby]

Oh my, prayers sent.

 

[gaia227]

I'm sure this has to do with the baby being in trouble because of Amanda's drug use while pregnant. Lets just hope this baby goes directly to an adoption agency and finds a good home with a good family. It is so unfair. It makes me so angry this has happened again and is allowed to happen again and again because it is the woman's right to bear children - Amanda should have lost that right when she abused her first child. It should be a standard practice that a women automatically has her tubes tied if she bears children who are in a bad situation because of them - especially when it is the second time. Amanda has lost her heart - so young to have lost your compassion.

I'm sorry Rosco. I am sure it is very hard to see your younger half-sister fall this far. I'm sorry for you - I cannot say I feel very sorry for her right now.

 

[Cubby]

I'm sure this has to do with the baby being in trouble because of Amanda's drug use while pregnant. Lets just hope this baby goes directly to an adoption agency and finds a good home with a good family. It is so unfair. It makes me so angry this has happened again and is allowed to happen again and again because it is the woman's right to bear children - Amanda should have lost that right when she abused her first child. It should be a standard practice that a women automatically has her tubes tied if she bears children who are in a bad situation because of them - especially when it is the second time. Amanda has lost her heart - so young to have lost your compassion.

I'm sorry Rosco. I am sure it is very hard to see your younger half-sister fall this far. I'm sorry for you - I cannot say I feel very sorry for her right now.

Either that, or they are confined to inpatient rehab for the duration of their pregnancy to ensure they can not abuse drugs while they are expecting.

 

[Boyz_Mum]

Praying for the baby and that he/she will be placed in a loving home ASAP.

Rosco, my prayers are with all of you.

 

[gaia227]

Either that, or they are confined to inpatient rehab for the duration of their pregnancy to ensure they can not abuse drugs while they are expecting.

There are certainly lots of different valuable options. My initial response upon hearing about the baby was reactionary, emotional and a little angry so I admit what I said a little........harsh and not real well thought out.

 

[Rosco]

Hey 'yall. Sorry for the delay. Life goes on and I always have to find time to do personal things...

DK is correct. "A" had another baby girl.

I don't know when (date) or details of her birth - except she was dehydrated at birth and was not given any care during PG. Was not told if baby was born drug addicted. I dont know that information.

Baby was not given a name from "A". She called her an "IT"
and gave "IT" (her) up to the State.

My DB is in the process of trying to locate her and see if he could take care of her. He is in CA so this might be a very very difficult process.

My niece is SOOO much better off without a :loser:mother who can't even name her upon birth.. Does not want any connection/feeling/commitment.

I have been so down over her actions these past few days...and had to have time to digest it..before posting here.
I could say the wrong thing.:silenced:

Praying for the best for our new niece...and praying she can be located and given to DB & SIL for a better life... a drug free life.. a life in God's house...

Rosco

 

[Nyla4]

(((Rosco))) I'm so sorry for all the pain you've endured. My Terry and Darleen Anderson get justice. I'm praying for you and your family. I too feel that XBF or one of the "meth" crowd knows who did this despicable murder. Hopefully one of them will break down or be back into a corner by LE and talk. My prayers to "A"s baby girls too.

 

[snowme]

Wow... "it" huh?!

So sad.

I pray your db is successful in his attempt to find her and give her a good home.

Hope all is well with you & yours (((Rosco))).

 

[gaia227]

:blowkiss:

Oh, Rosco (((((Hugs to you))))

I could go on about what "A" should have done but what is done is done and at least the baby now has a chance of having a nice home with a responsible family who has compassion and love to give.

 

[Rosco]

:furious:
Why are pps so rude?

I have a Facebook for Dad and Darleen's Justice. This PM was from a long-time friend from grade-school. Met thru Classmates a few months back. We spoke a few times on the phone and emailed each every now and then.

I received this PM from her today and the reasons she took Dad and Darleen's Facebook off of her friends list... BANNED...

I understand your reasons for doing facebook trying get your word out about your dad, however, my reasons for facebooking are for fun and I have managed to locate a lot of my former Midway airlines friends and United airlines friends that I missed so much. I love communicating with these friends of mine and well it's all very positive energy and positive fun. This facebook is fun networking for me, but your comments on it are very negative and sometimes very unappealing. I've been questioned quite a bit about who is writing such things have been given negative words about it too. I've had to explain. I've had no communication with you regarding anything else and feel used thru my networking. This is fun for me and I know that I am not in your shoes but I do not live in the past for I too have had my share of negative things in my life including being abducted at knifepoint and being told I was going to be killed. I lived. And I forgave who did it. I cannot tell you what to do, but I have to remove Terry Anderson from my network to keep my networks lighthearted and fun because that is who I am. I am a deep person but do not dwell on the negativity for I will then draw only more to me....it is the laws of attraction. I would rather you and i keep friendship on the side and communicate via emails or phone calls when we can. Please do not be offended but your negativity really brings me down and others too...and I'm being questioned too much about your type of writings. Honestly I've never seen anything positive about "helping you find that someone"...I'm sorry Sherry please do not be offended but I need to keep friendship separate from your finding your dad's murderer. I feel used.

How is a person to feel about this PM? :waitasec:

Me... it really punched me below the belt.... HURT is an understatment...

:furious::furious:

I replied " Sorry - good luck'...

Sometimes it really is difficult to continue when I am continued to be bashed and compared....

Sorry - no continue future friendship there...

Rosco

 

[snowme]

(((Sherry))), honey... I am stunned by that. I'm literally here with my mouth open...

I guess I don't think she intends to be rude.. it's just that her desired blindness to the world around her caused her to be rude. She'd rather pretend the world is rosey. I guess it's her coping mechanism.

Please, I know she's a long-time associate, but don't take it to heart... because she's not able to be the type of friend that most all of us would need. One that doesn't pretend all is rosey.

since she says she's had to explain you to others who've asked I guess there are many more out there who are like her and cope by blocking out reality.

Please lift your heart with the thoughts that you do have friends and family who aren't like this.. and who love you and support you whole-heartedly. Count me among those! :blowkiss: :hug:

:furious:
Why are pps so rude?

I have a Facebook for Dad and Darleen's Justice. This PM was from a long-time friend from grade-school. Met thru Classmates a few months back. We spoke a few times on the phone and emailed each every now and then.

I received this PM from her today and the reasons she took Dad and Darleen's Facebook off of her friends list... BANNED...

I understand your reasons for doing facebook trying get your word out about your dad, however, my reasons for facebooking are for fun and I have managed to locate a lot of my former Midway airlines friends and United airlines friends that I missed so much. I love communicating with these friends of mine and well it's all very positive energy and positive fun. This facebook is fun networking for me, but your comments on it are very negative and sometimes very unappealing. I've been questioned quite a bit about who is writing such things have been given negative words about it too. I've had to explain. I've had no communication with you regarding anything else and feel used thru my networking. This is fun for me and I know that I am not in your shoes but I do not live in the past for I too have had my share of negative things in my life including being abducted at knifepoint and being told I was going to be killed. I lived. And I forgave who did it. I cannot tell you what to do, but I have to remove Terry Anderson from my network to keep my networks lighthearted and fun because that is who I am. I am a deep person but do not dwell on the negativity for I will then draw only more to me....it is the laws of attraction. I would rather you and i keep friendship on the side and communicate via emails or phone calls when we can. Please do not be offended but your negativity really brings me down and others too...and I'm being questioned too much about your type of writings. Honestly I've never seen anything positive about "helping you find that someone"...I'm sorry Sherry please do not be offended but I need to keep friendship separate from your finding your dad's murderer. I feel used.

How is a person to feel about this PM? :waitasec:

Me... it really punched me below the belt.... HURT is an understatment...

:furious::furious:

I replied " Sorry - good luck'...

Sometimes it really is difficult to continue when I am continued to be bashed and compared....

Sorry - no continue future friendship there...

Rosco

 

[Cubby]

Oh my Rosco,
(((((((hugs)))))))) I agree with Snow. My mouth dropped reading that message as well. I agree with your decision to no longer stay in contact. I too don't believe she meant to be rude. Some people simply can not involve themselves with such things. I'd like to believe it's not because they don't care, but simply because it is too much for them and it is simpler for them to believe someone else will take care of it, therefore they don't need to concerns themselves and choose to not be part of it, or a solution. My sister, for example, simply can not discuss things which are posted here at WS, she'll cry and have nightmares for days -even if it is regarding strangers. I simply respect that. I understand your reasons for utilizing Facebook for your dear father and step mother. That person, wishes to utilize it for reasons other than yours so probably just best to let it be and move onto others who are willing and able to help. Sometimes we can get back in contact with an old friend after many years and find you simply no longer have anything in common. There are reasons why some people don't make it to our futures. Try not to let it get to you.

hugs

Cubby

 

[RhythmicSun]

Sometimes we can get back in contact with an old friend after many years and find you simply no longer have anything in common. There are reasons why some people don't make it to our futures. Try not to let it get to you.

hugs

Cubby

<respectfully snipped>

Hugs to you Rosco, I have read your thread before about your dad and your struggle, and prayed that eventually you will know the truth and find justice. I think many of us have had this type of thing happen, it's never fun especially in the context you're dealing with. Keep on keepin' on and you will triumph! :blowkiss:

 

[Rosco]

:blowkiss::blowkiss::thumb::cow:

OK I like the cow... LOL..

Thanks yall!...

It hurts.. but I'll brush my skinned knees and walk that mile. :dance: I'm in it for the long run and do not intend to ever give in.

Got word that Dad and Darleen's home will be up for Sheriff Auction next month. :furious::banghead::steamed::tsktsk::shakehead::curses: (( and many more emotions ))

All gone... :slap: and nothing to show anymore.

Alas....

ANYWAY.... life continues in progress...

DS b-day tommorrow. :HappyBday - Took the day off from the office... I need ALL the energy I can either produce by java or 5hr energy... !!!
Entertaining 22 (invited?) 5 & 6Yr olds.. :dance: YEEEEE HAAA!!!!!!

((( oh and some adults that act like 5-6yr olds..)))

Thanks so much... I just love WS and everyone here. I truly would not be in this possition (level headed *sometimes*) without all the help from everyone here on WS.

All my love and resepct.
Rosco

 

[Boyz_Mum]

Rosco, I'm glad you feel some sense of comfort here at WS. Don't let that facebook "friend" get you down~ stick with the friends who help pick you up. Praying for justice and praying for A's baby girls.