He is allegedly raping her, and she didn't care that he was doing it. Her first thought was, "uh oh." Not, WTF, get off me you sick-o.
Nurmi is practically BEGGING her to say that she didn't like it, didn't want it, and she won't. She didn't ask him to stop. She started squirming because it felt good, she said his name in passion. She then went down on him. If someone did that to me and then wanted me to give him oral sex, I would have bit him. Very hard.
She was NOT raped or forced, she did not stop it because she liked it, she loves him, and wouldn't have left. She didn't feel threatened or bad about this and she stayed because she wanted to enjoy the rest of the weekend with him.
It's hard to tell who the bigger dirt bag is right now: Wurmi or HER