T4Tide
Verified Registered Nurse
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I don't know what to say to you...it's very sad....but how good mother wouldn't know?
If you really know your child, talking with the child, taking good healthy environment (doctor visits, talking to her teachers and friends)...I mean, really-really know your child (not just gives the food and buy the cloth!) - HOW MOTHER CANNOT KNOW that something is wrong with her baby?! How?...Molestation is a huge stress shock for a child! Mother MUST know!...JMO....and please God don't proof me wrong!!!!
My mother did not know, because I did not tell her. Did she ask? Yes. Did she tell me and teach me that no one was supposed to touch me there? Yes. Did she question why I was red at times? Yes. I told her I rubbed it. She assumed I wasn't cleaning very well and helped me clean. She loved me, and I know for a fact she didn't know until I told her when I was 17 because it broke her heart. I didn't tell because the person told me NOT TO, and I was afraid. I was afraid he wouldn't be my friend anymore. I was afraid I would be in trouble. I was afraid I had done something wrong. I was afraid that if I told, he wouldn't love me, and my mother wouldn't love me, either, because I was bad. I was bad, because IT was bad.
Not at all defending the Ramsey's, but every mother out there who has been put into this situation, and babies like me who didn't tell.