GrainneDhu
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IMO you might think "What did you do to him, you witch" if you just deeply dislike somebody even if you never thought she was an actual danger to children before.
I think if there used to be a messy divorce and strained relationship with your ex's new wife a lot of gut reactions might have been explained away as the result of the jealousy, anger, bitterness and any other negative feelings that might persist between two women in such a situation and if people are trying to establish a good working relationship they may try to ignore such feelings.
Besides, you might need some kind of evidence for the courts to give you full custody. An apparently well cared for child might not be removed from his established home just because the mother has a bad feeling about the stepmom.
I agree with all that.
Particularly on DY's likelihood of regaining custody. When she returned to the US, she had a large medical bill and it was reported that she had to move in with her parents to get her feet on the ground again.
By law, judges in my state must give greatest consideration to the parent who has been the most recent caretaker in normal custody decisions. Unless there is some evidence to think that the child is not being adequately taken care of, it would be very difficult in this state for the mother to regain custody. Even if the other parent has much higher income and could provide a higher standard of living, that is not (on its own) enough to shift custody away from the parent that already has custody.
In one of the interviews, KH was asked about his relationship with Kyron and he started off by saying that in the hospital after Kyron was born, he spent a lot of time holding Kyron so Dad smell would be familiar to him. That strikes me as a guy who really wanted Kyron and was planning to be a big part of his life.