Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #15 *Arrest*

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I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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We have your back FLA-
I respect everything you have done for your grandson. Send the vultures my way-I have broad shoulders


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I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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If you ever need someone who can and will go Scrappy Do on vultures, I have your back!
 
I find it infuriating that a jailed drug user, liar, etc., seems to be holding all the cards. Praying WPD and FBI really DO have a lot going on in the background.

I don't think she is holding all the cards. I think she THINKS she is and they are letting her. Maybe they think she'll get cocky and slip up. We don't have a lot of information but with what we do have, it's hard for me not to feel that there is more going on behind the scenes then we can imagine. I'm counting on that.
 
I can't even imagine how difficult it would be for family to be out in the public eye in situations like this, but it seems once the family disappears from the public eye the public awareness and willingness to help also goes down.

They don't need to answer any questions about what they think happened, or the abuse allegations etc. just simply a plea for people to look for anything that might help find Lucas and bring him home. The weather is going to be getting nicer and people will be visiting parks, working on their properties and getting out and about more. Lucas needs to stay fresh in the public mind.
 
I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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FLA, my heart breaks for you and all who love Lucas. I am far away, but I think of him often, and pray for him daily. You are truly remarkable with your tireless efforts, and facing the evil that's out there. Please know there are many of us praying that Lucas is found soon, and that you all find peace. Hugs and much love to you all!
 
Reading some of your stories here just breaks my heart! You guys make me proud with how you've handled things. I know it's been rough. We're such a great group here and I do feel that we have each others backs.
Our little Lucas has brought out so much good in so many!
We're going to find him! He's out there somewhere!
 
The other night at a restaurant we had a meth head approach us. He went from one thought to another until he started becoming angry. With his anger he was trying to incite violence with my hubby. I started thinking about EG and Lucas. Did she do drugs like meth? That's some crazy stuff! This guys thoughts and behavior were irrational. If EG was doing meth then Lucas and MH were living a nightmare!
 
The other night at a restaurant we had a meth head approach us. He went from one thought to another until he started becoming angry. With his anger he was trying to incite violence with my hubby. I started thinking about EG and Lucas. Did she do drugs like meth? That's some crazy stuff! This guys thoughts and behavior were irrational. If EG was doing meth then Lucas and MH were living a nightmare!

I wonder if anyone in that house had been diagnosed with ADHD? The reason I am asking is I had a family member whose son was prescribed Adderall , but instead of giving it to the child she took it herself and would become a non-stop 10 foot tall, bulletproof monster! God forbid anyone get in her way when she was on a mission. When we figured out what was up, and that she wasn't actually psychotic.. she got help and everything was fine.
 
Do any of you Wichitonians have any connections with the Wichita Thunder hockey team?


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I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged.

Scapegoating is disgusting. Those doing it to come to terms can kick rocks like the rubbernecking tag alongs they are. Lucas joy & character is evident for all to see- thanks to all who loved and cared for him. NOBODY gets to take that from you.

This is a *major* issue I have with the families having to be 'the ones' to push their loved one's private, precious, personal moments one piece at a time in the interest of finding them (you owe us NOTHING)... The missing NEED you as nobody knows them better... you need those who've been in this nightmare, guidance through every step due to the traumatic nature of reliving, facing, and being blamed for things beyond your control (ultimately the disappearance itself).
Meanwhiles, if there's access to professional help it's scraps at the end of the ordeal not during where it's needed most.
This is a club no one wants to join; people paint you as pariahs but then blame you for not being saints.
Well, 'they' can stick that pedestal right back where they pulled it out! :saythat:


We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

As deep as that hit and loud as they sounded, it's extremely telling when somebody sticks their foot in their mouth & others elevate them, especially at such a time as prayer!!!
Childish petty pathetic selfish actions put Lucas where he is today and these types are no different.

Let/ Them/ Fall/ On/ Their/ Own/ (s)Words.
 
I find it infuriating that a jailed drug user, liar, etc., seems to be holding all the cards. Praying WPD and FBI really DO have a lot going on in the background.

EG wanted the cavalry to come running.

She's a gonna get it, and all the ammo she asked them for.

No matter how far I dig and what comes up, this much is very clear.
 
I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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I just want to apologize to you for ignorant people. For all the pictures were there are bruises... I’ve also seen the pictures of Lucas smiling. I know he was loved , but had the misfortune of the wrong caregiver. And I’m not judging anyone until we have to walk in your shoes we cannot judge.
 
Good idea. I’ll see what I can find out.


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I thought I saw a picture of him wearing the shirt with the bear on it. Maybe standing next to EG while she sat on a couch?
 
I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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We love you, FLA, and we’ve got you!
 
Do you have thoughts on whether Lucas was at the house and seen by landlord? (Is that definite?) If you don't mind, I don't mean to offed you at all. Healing vibes for you ...
Not offended by your question at all. To my knowledge, yes the landlord saw Lucas alone on the 16th around 5:30 PM alive and peeking through a window. That's all I know about it though. I don't have any reason to believe it didn't happen or that the landlord was mistaken.

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Not offended by your question at all. To my knowledge, yes the landlord saw Lucas alone on the 16th around 5:30 PM alive and peeking through a window. That's all I know about it though. I don't have any reason to believe it didn't happen or that the landlord was mistaken.

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Thank you and thank you for being so strong for Lucas and for all the love you've shown him.:)
Big Hugs,
Chi:heartbeat::heartbeat::heartbeat:
 
I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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We got you FLA.

I joined a "Sleuthing" group on FB which I thought was to help find Lucas. I left after 4 hours because of the bashing of his momma. I couldn't take it. It was basically a gossip site, and not a sleuthing/find lucas group. Already a member of the group set up by and much happier. You are amazing FLA, your dedication to your nephew shines through
 
I can't speak for anyone but myself, but it's exhausting putting yourself in the public eye even just a little bit. Even commenting here or elsewhere my words are picked apart and judged. We have met so many wonderful people, but we've met just as many people who are vile. This is entertainment to them and I can only describe them as being vultures.

We went to a vigil early on where I was personally hoping to pray, let myself cry, and just focus on Lucas. It was nice until the very last moment when two people chose to speak up and say they would love to take Lucas into their homes and give him love because "That's more than the adults in his life ever did for him." It's crushing to hear that. It's tough to have to stand there and listen to it because it's being broadcasted live on the internet and if you walk away you'll be judged.

All of that to say that we want Lucas out there. We want everyone to continue talking about him. If anyone has to get on television in order for that to happen then we will, but it's a harder decision to make than most people realize.

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FindLucasAllen, please know that we appreciate your being here and posting here more than you know. We are really lucky to have you and here with us.

If anyone here on the thread ever posts anything that offends you or is insensitive, please alert on the post and/or message me. Some people may not even realize what they are saying is insensitive, but since I can't read every post, I appreciate your (and others) letting me know if there are any problems.

I would hate for you to stop posting here. I would hope that everyone here knows how much you love Lucas.
 
FindLucasAllen, please know that we appreciate your being here and posting here more than you know. We are really lucky to have you and here with us.

If anyone here on the thread ever posts anything that offends you or is insensitive, please alert on the post and/or message me. Some people may not even realize what they are saying is insensitive, but since I can't read every post, I appreciate your (and others) letting me know if there are any problems.

I would hate for you to stop posting here. I would hope that everyone here knows how much you love Lucas.

Thx LilTexans!


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