I am going to listen again also because the timeline is a little fuzzy to me but, I thought he had spoken to JH first and determined that he wasn’t the focus of his (DM) objective. The way I interpreted events was, he then told JH to go on and do whatever he needed to do, go to work or whatever because EG wouldn’t give up what she was hiding if JH was around. Later in the podcast, after the search was either underway or completed, he asked EG if she wanted to tell JH or if she wanted him to tell JH, which I took it that this was going to be a revelation to JH. Again, I could have heard wrong. It’s funny how so many people can hear the same recording and come away with different interpretations. It’s like that old game of gossip.