The outrage and disbelief of what happened to beautiful Lucas Hernandez has resulted in more than 30 threads of posts by very empathetic individuals, and I believe he will always be our Angel.
I have to confess however that as many times as I've read and shared the April 13, 2018, Wichita News account on the horrific details of abuse centering around EG, it was not until knowing that she was no longer free and among us that I could re-read the published timeline and truly focus on the cause, effect, and possible prevention of future harm to other minor children.
First of all, Lucas bruises and injuries were twice reported to the State by both family and School --and acted upon (even if not to my liking). Please don't blame yourselves FLA. More importantly, I personally want to recognize that healthy people do not beat and/or abuse children and leave their lifeless bodies under a bridge to rot. They also don't kill themselves versus standing accountable for their actions.
In honor of beautiful Lucas, I'm taking some time to educate myself on bipolar disorder and violence, and have already learned a lot including:
People who are in a strong
dysphoric manic episode can be dangerous, aggressive and violent;
Bipolar disorder is an episodic illness. They have all of the symptoms while in a mood swing. This means they are STABLE when they are not in a mood swing. If you have bipolar disorder one, there is a 70% chance of full on psychosis when you are in a full-blown manic episode (BBM).
People, both men and women who are mild mannered and kind when well, get super human strength along with the aggression- ripping a sink out of the wall- punching through windows- throwing chairs and other dangerous behavior are not uncommon.
Families and partners suffer in silence because they are scared to tell anyone about what really goes on at home. BBM
Like so many mental illnesses, side effects of Rx treatment to prevent and/or manage episodes are widely considered intolerable making it easier to turn to illicit drugs.
The inheritance pattern of bipolar disorder is unclear. ... Many individuals with bipolar disorder have relatives with other mood, anxiety, and psychotic disorders (such as depression or schizophrenia). These disorders may run in families in part because they share some genetic risk factors with bipolar disorder.
IMO, we learned from EG that manic rage does not discriminate -- she was obviously unfit/violent to both her biological and step children. IMO, JH knew or should have known better than to leave his minor children alone with EG given his extended absences. So where was JH backup plan?
Lastly, if you know of or suspect somebody of cycling into a manic episode ( lasting hours to weeks), please consider offering to take their children out of their home if only for a day/weekend.
If just 1% of posters take a quick look at the linked warnings to recognize, and/or prevent and manage violence in a bipolar person, we may just save a vulnerable child from harm. Thanks for reading.
7 Steps to Prevent and Manage Violence in Bipolar Patients | Psychiatric Times
Three Bipolar Disorder Symptoms No One Wants to Talk About | bpHope
Bipolar disorder
Horrific new details emerge in court document about missing 5-year-old Lucas Hernandez