his brother said this ((I dare you not to cry))
~snip~
We must remember him for how he lived his life and for the things he loved to do. Those who knew him well recognized what clearly made him special for each one of us. For me, he was my younger brother who I begged to make me cookies every weekend when I was home from school. Then while he was making them I would sneak into the kitchen with a spoon, grab some cookie dough out of a bowl and make a dash for the safety of my room being chased by him. His dream was to be a chef, and even though he won't be able to finish that dream in life, his legacy will live on in the lives he touched.
~unsnip~
I am gonna go ahead and go where no one else really has yet.. but Andrew's sexual orientation and the method with which he chose to meet people has NOTHING to do with what happened to him really!
How many of you have posted on a dating website? Or know someone who has met their significant other on the internet?
What is wrong here is that Andrew met an ANIMAL on the internet!
I feel so badly for what happened to you Andrew! I wish you could have found the love of your life instead of finding your end there. I am so very sorry for the live you couldn't lead and so very sorry for the family that must be missing you so horribly.
rest in peace Andrew.
Just had to quote this again because it's so true, and I completely agree.
I haven't posted in quite awhile, but this case especially is getting to me because I'm a local and went to Sullivan, and now work in this area.
I completely agree that sexual orientation has nothing to do with it, and the fact that he met him on the internet has nothing to do with it...there are psychos out there. Period. It just as easily could've been a woman that Andrew met, or it could've been a young woman who found a crazy guy, or another another woman for that matter. He could've met this guy at a bar/club, or somewhere else. I and several people I know have met friends/significant others online, and my cousin and several friends have met their spouses that way. Andrew could've, and should've, found love or friendship, but unfortunately didn't. He just happened to find a psycho, which could've happened to anyone, no matter what sexual orientation they had or how they met the person. I just hate that some people seem to be focusing on those things and not the fact that an 18 year old kid who should've had his entire life ahead of him won't get that chance now, which is really the only part that matters.
I agree with everyone who said something is off with this guy's story. Young people (especially 18 year olds!) usually don't just randomly die during sex. Obviously, it's possible, but if there were some sort of medical issue I'd think there'd be some sort of signs/symptoms first...difficulty breathing, headache, dizziness, some type of pain, something. Wouldn't you call 911 at that point? And even if he did die suddenly without any warning/symptoms, you call someone, you don't get rid of his body and pretend it didn't happen until the cops show up at your door. It just seems like kind of an unlikely story to me. It would make sense, too, if he's lying about the dumpster story, and doesn't want the body found because he's afraid that an autopsy would prove it was murder.
I just hope he's found soon so his family can have some kind of peace.