If the Murder for Hire Plot "never happened" or "didn't matter" then why hasn't Terri or her Attorney come out and said that? Why didn't they contest the restraining order decree in which the "plot" was mentioned?
http://images.bimedia.net/documents/horman-affair.pdf
To me, that is the actual evidence that the MFH plan exists - the fact that it was mentioned in a legal document separating TH from her daughter, and yet she hasn't fought it, or denied it, or even made a statement about it in any way.
Why? Probably because the police have copious evidence that it occurred, and they at least have the sexting files from the cell phone proving she was trying to deal somehow with this gardener/landscaper guy. The document mentions hundreds of text messages, and we know that there have been huge amounts of subpoenas, some of which for other phones involved. TH is up to her neck in this stuff, which is why she is staying quiet, in my opinion.
The sting didn't work, but that doesn't mean the MFH didn't happen. One conclusion doesn't rule out another. JMO
IMHO, the alleged MFH plot went something like this:
The landscaper and Terri were strolling around the homestead one day casually discussing blackberries and brush that needed to be cleared away. The landscaper noticed Terri was upset. He casually and politely inquired about how she was doing. He got an earful. She brought her emotional dumptruck to his doorstep and unloaded. She told him about Kaine, perhaps about her thankless roles as mother and wife, that he was controlling of her spending, about how he'd hurt her emotionally, perhaps that she suspected him of having an affair, etc. The landscaper jokingly said, "I'll take care of him for you." Terri replied seriously, "Would you really? I'll give you a thousand dollars!" Perhaps that was the end of it, or perhaps the landscaper returned the next week and Terri, in a moment of anger, asked, "Are you still willing to take care of it for me?" Terri and the landscaper had a laugh and that was the end of it.
Was she being serious? Did the landscaper take it seriously? We know it never went beyond the talking phase. There's no indication real planning took place. No money exchanged hands. Based on news reports, no payment of any kind was exchanged. There is no written or digital corroboration. The landscaper never approached LE with any concerns about Kaine's safety. Kaine is still alive. No one else has come forward to say that they too were approached by Terri about killing her husband.
I realize that this is my interpretation, but Terri seems to run off at the mouth, so I can reasonably envision a scenario in which this was discussed but not seriously. It makes sense that the landscaper would not come forward because, perhaps, he didn't take it seriously either. And then Kyron went missing. Does Kyron going missing have any real bearing on the conversation Terri had six or seven months prior? People say things they don't mean. People are careless in what they say and in what they write. Terri is known to be careless. When the landscaper approached her in an attempt to extort money out of her (re: the sting), not only did she not incriminate herself, but she called 911. If there was a real plan to off Kaine, I don't believe LE would only have the landscaper's word for it.
Having said all that, if it was a joke, there's no way Houze would advise Terri to try and clear things up. People will only hear that Terri and the landscaper "talked about it," but they won't hear, "in a totally joking way."
Personally, I believe the landscaper and Terri did discuss it, but I don't believe it was ever serious.
I know not everyone has a child go missing, but IMHO, everyone has skeletons in their closets, conversations they've had that could be construed as inappropriate (I could just shoot him!), frustrations about spouses and/or children they've vented to a friend or confidante, that when twisted a certain way, and from a singular perspective, could be used to support a horrifying theory.
Or, IMHO, Terri could be guilty of attempting to hire someone to kill her husband and innocent of harming Kyron. The two are mutually exclusive, IMHO. Regardless of whether or not Terri is guilty of the accusations against her, Houze is not going to defend her in the court of public opinion. He's only going to defend her when and where it really and truly counts.