Ya know...I thought the same thing...They all looked horrible during that 1st press conference...but we have not seen anything of Terri since... Now comes Desiree with her hair nicely permed and wearing make up and fake eyelashes....Doesn't seem fair at all...
On top of that, they are showing her mugshot from her 2005 DUI...
First off, not jumping you; but, rather jumping off from your post ... just sharing my feelings on the theory that DY has had her hair permed.
I don't know where everyone is getting that DY has had her hair permed since Kyron went missing. Anyone have a link? If not, I feel that this is no more than a rumor and should be dropped. I keep seeing it over and over; but, from my own experience I have to disagree. I have naturally curly hair. Sometimes I put in gel, scrunch it up and wear it curly. Sometimes I flat iron it and wear it straight for a couple of days. It depends on how I feel. What is the big deal? DY looked like crap just like everyone else in the beginning because she was in shock and probably really did not care how she looked.
(BTW, I *think* DY has naturally curly hair, first appearance it was pulled back but curly ... at her statement, her hair was not in tight new curls, it looked more natural curl to me)
I would say, in her everyday life, DY probably fixes her hair nice and applies make up like most women do. So, it does not strike me as odd. She may have applied make up when they decided she would be the one to issue a statement. I don't know about fake eyelashes ... never used them; so, I know nothing about them. IF DY had fake eyelashes it could have been completely natural for her to wear them before and after the disappearance.
I would say that, going on the talk shows, her hair and make up is done for her. Terri has not appeared on any other interviews. It is not just this case. It is all cases. For example: Granny Hollar from the Haleigh Cummings case ... after her first appearance on NG someone got her chompers and dyed her hair to hide her gray. Take the mother of Wayne Tracey, she did not appear to be someone that took a lot of time w/ her appearance. When she appeared on the Today show her hair was fixed nice (possibly dyed) and make up. I think that is pretty normal.
I didn't fully understand what everyone was talking about until I finally googled Terri last night to see what she looked like when she placed 4th in the body building competition. WOW! What a difference!! I definitely did not think it was the same person.
*I think* that people are so shocked because:
1. She really has changed (so have I since having a baby; so, not throwing stones, just observing). She obviously took a lot of pride in how she looked, how she cared for her body, as well as her physical appearance. What changed that? I know from past and personal experience, depression can cause one to let their appearance go.
2. For someone like that to change so dramatically in just a few months leads one to believe something was wrong that caused her not to care as much. I did NOT judge any of them on their appearance at that first presser. I would expect parents of a missing child not to care about their physical appearance at that time. I know I wouldn't.
3. Terri is under constant scrutiny for everything she does BECAUSE she was the last known person to be seen w/ Kyron. So much has pointed to her since the beginning. There are gaps in her timeline. Her story doesn't match what LE has found while investigating, etc. News reports only continue to confirm that w/ each new shocking twist.
4. I think a lot of people are just really trying to figure out how she could ever get to a point where she would hurt a child she has raised since an infant. I know I have not wanted to believe that she would. As I have stated before, I think too much has come out for Kyron's disappearance to be simply a coincidence. JMO & thoughts. Take w/ a grain of salt.
ETA: I just watched DY's plea again. She does not appear to have on a lot of make up. Foundation looks to be it. Not a lot of time taken to do that.