Mountain_Kat
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I'm going to bring my post from other thread over to this one because I want to add something to it.
Here's my original post:
Now I'm going to put my linguistics student/English teacher hat back on (please, no jokes about being cunning ):
I could understand his use of the term 'mean' when describing these murders if English was not his first language, or if he was autistic,or of limited intelligence, or younger than 12. Since he doesn't appear to fall into any of these categories, then there's no rational reason why an educated person speaking his native tongue would choose this adjective. The most common adjectives that we would use in English to describe this situation would be: horrible, awful, scary, terrifying, disgusting, vicious, savage, deranged, etc. 'Mean' is something an average person would use to describe kids who have spray-painted graffiti on a building, or to describe that stereotypical old-man on the block who yells at kids when they ride their bikes across his grass. It would not be used by 99.99999% of the native English-speaking population to describe murders.
Thank you for mentioning the bit in the letters where CPH describes this story as being 'important'. If this was an important story, would one call it 'mean'? Not in my opinion. They'd use words like 'horrific', 'terrifying', or a phrase like 'deadly serious' when talking about the events of this "important story". MOO.
Adding on:
In addition to the strange use of the term 'mean', I also think it's extremely weird that in 2011, a native-English speaking educated adult would use the term 'calling card' instead of the more common and appropriate 'business card'. This isn't Victorian England and we simply don't leave 'calling cards'. In fact, the typical connotation of that term in 2011 is that a calling card is a sign left behind by someone (it's usually associated with serial killers) for others to know that that particular person was responsible for something. We just don't use that term interchangeably with 'business card' any more. I've never, ever encountered someone using that term when they were referring to their business card. Usually they'll just say, "here's my card" or "could I have one of your cards?" I also think that his misspelling of Shannan's name after he initially spelled it correctly is very suspicious, IMO.
I've had very similiar thoughts on these things, Chantal.
"Mean" vs. a more appropriate adjective: to me, this shows a socially awkward attempt at expressing empathy. I would expect this from someone who doesn't feel what a normal person should feel, and therefore struggles to try to adapt appropriate words for feelings that just aren't there. A child would do this (because they are still learning), and undereducated person would do this (because they have a limited vocabulary)...but a doctor?! A highly educated individual who chooses a field where compassion and empathy are normally at the fore?! VERY odd.
calling card vs. business card : I also noted the symbology of "calling card" and found it strange. But I think what we have here is more of an awkward attempt at "distancing". CPH was trying to avoid making a connection between SG's disappearance and his "business". Why? Because he's trying to cover his tracks from the slip up he made the morning he called the family and said he was treating SG at his rehab facility. His "business card" therefore becomes merely a "calling card", completely unrelated to what he does for a living.
The one word I could use to describe BOTH of these oddities is "awkward", and it's also a word I could use to describe CPH as a whole. From the way he walks into the house while his wife takes over an interview, to the way he converses with reporters while standing in the doorway of his house...awkward. I don't care what he does for a living, or how many people he's interacted with on a daily basis, this is a man who is not confortable and confident when it comes to social interactions.
JMO