Since it was maybe a week before the first search, something obviously pointed to the HOI. My thoughts are either eyewitness can place the SG at Metlife that day or cell history can place the two together that day. I think it's quite possible SG took an Uber/taxi to and/or from the vicinity of DS's apt or he made a call or text to someone to take him to and/or from the area. We have no idea if LE have talked to any friends about his whereabouts. I'm also not ruling out a disgruntled wife being the cause of or okaying the first search.
I know mine automatically sends things to my Google Drive account when I have wifi, but I think I had to set it like that so it wouldn't use data ???? Hopefully hers auto updates.
I'm also not ruling out the it was SG's phone that pinged out of state or in Canada either.
Also open to both scenarios just because I haven't seen anything to confirm one or the other. I definitely think there was a known history between the two whether negative (rejection) or positive (romantic) just due to how quickly LE had their sights on SG.
I think in a rejection situation, it was likely SG misinterpreted DS's friendliness as flirting or mutual interest and was shot down or DS was adamantly against anything involving a married man.
But I can't rule out mutual romance either. I don't want anyone to think I'm judging DS either. No one can control emotions and she may have not even known SG was married. Not everyone runs a background check on a potential love interest. And people have been known to lie.
Crime of passion is my top theory. I don't think this was a random encounter with a random crazy.
People read our comments and because they like DS or because they have "seen" her personality they are quick to refute the possibility of a mutual relationship.
Convinced it was a crime of passion I too have obviously been trying to determine if it was one sided or two.
I THINK it was mutual and here's why.....
Why would a stalker who was also a "colleague" try to pull off a kidnapping at the workplace where he would be easily identifiable by hundreds of people. It would have been just as easy for him to pull it off at her apartment.
But he would be less concerned about being spotted in the lot if his initial plan did not contain any violence. He showed up to talk to her for a few minutes, Then something went wrong. IMO