IMO - at some point Gypsy turned the tables on mom.... Gypsy was the head of the household - Mom catering to Gyspys wants... Now that mom is dead, at Gyspys request, she set herself up with a BF that will play her "lil sick girl in wheelchair" game.. She entered that relationship as a deathly sick girl in a wheelchair - Why?
is DeeDee dead because SHE was sick of Gyspys game?
Have we seen any of the correspondance between Gypsy and Nicholas to know if she described herself to him as disabled ? IIRC , she told a friend that she told Nicholas she was disabled and he didn't care. I don't remember if this friend knew about the scam , so maybe she was just telling a friend who believed she was disabled that Nicholas didn't care that she was disabled ?