It's 100% the same people in MO and La Jolla AND Hollister, CA.
I searched the MO property tax/transaction records, and GB and KB are listed as owners- along with their DMV information for MO and CA.
GB had a computer company in San Diego, incorporated in 1988. The corporation filing is listed as "suspended" now- which could just mean he didn't re-file, not a "bad" suspension. "Registered Agent" for the company is GB, with a La Jolla address.
Next, GB had a consulting company in Hollister, incorporation filed in 2000. Listed as "dissolved" meaning he totally closed the business. Doesn't say when it was dissolved, but I think I can get that from the CA Secretary of State website. Home address is in Hollister too - seems like the business was run out of the home.
I'm going to pull up the deed to their MO house. Makes me think they moved to MO specifically to watch the kids?
If they came here to watch the kids, that means the bio-mom had to be here. Which still makes me curious why and how she got here. If bio-mom was 15 when AB was born, at least part of the baby, toddler yrs were with the gm bc bio-mom would still be living at home.