Not intended as opposition or antithesis to your post, more as a supplement, as I agree with some parts. I would include the following when discussing the issue...
Politicians who pander and exploit blacks trading enabling entitlements for votes to remain in power
Activists and leaders who take advantage of situations like this to further their brand
Stop identifying athletes and entertainers as the example of successfully escaping despair, rather than focusing on the average middle class worker, doctor, lawyer and entrepreneur as the template for success
Stop labeling black voices of reason like Bill Cosby and Ben Carson as Uncle Toms who've been brainwashed by whites when they are critical of the black community or point out what can be changed from within
Probably most important, focus one's energy on regaining traditional family structure with fathers in the home that give love and support that coincide with discipline, rather than counting on street lords and police to be the only discipline many kids ever know, which is obviously discipline by limitation and punishment that lacks the nurturing, the structure, and the affection that every child needs to have respect, confidence, and humility.