Mom Says Family Will Never Live In Home Again! What?

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MOO ...

I know many will not agree with me ... BUT ...

I find this statement "ODD" ... you would think DB would be more CONCERNED about FINDING Baby Lisa then where she is going to live in the future ...

IMO ... I think DB has "something" to hide about Baby Lisa's "disappearance" from the house that night ...

MOO ...

To me this sounds like the response if someone had asked her....
"Now that LE has released the home do you plan to move back there?" Not like something they were making plans about.
 
Well it's not her house, it's Jeremy's. I wonder if he's planning on staying. I'm assuming it's the only house his son knows.

Good point. DB doesn't own it so she could easily walk away and use Lisa's disappearance as an excuse. It's not quite so easy for JI to walk away without selling it and who would want to buy it?

JMO
 
To me this sounds like the response if someone had asked her....
"Now that LE has released the home do you plan to move back there?" Not like something they were making plans about.

Wouldn't the logical answer be "right now we're concerned with Lisa coming home safe, we'll decide trivial matters like that later"? I just can't even imagine trying to make such a weighty decision in the aftermath of this kind of tragedy. Wait a year, then decide.
 
Wouldn't the logical answer be "right now we're concerned with Lisa coming home safe, we'll decide trivial matters like that later"? I just can't even imagine trying to make such a weighty decision in the aftermath of this kind of tragedy. Wait a year, then decide.

I wonder if she consulted with JI before publicly announcing HER decision.
 
The house is going into foreclosure and the family is hoping somebody will donate another one?

My opinion that $$$$ is at the root of this case remains.

JMO

Do you have a link reporting that information? tia
 
JMOO, but if my child went missing from my home; I would NEVER be able to move from that address... I would be terrified to move or even change my phone numbers...

That and I think I would have to leave her little room just the way it was on the night she was taken from me...

But, you can bet your bippy that I would have the security stepped up like MAD.

I agree. If baby L was kidnapped, you just never know what could happen. I remember a case recently where a little boy was kidnapped and returned to the home (sorry can't pull the name out of my head at the moment).

In another case, the Van Dam's remained in their home after Danielle was abducted from her bedroom and murdered :( They lived there for a long while because the boys didn't want to move or change schools. That must have been really hard (especially having to drive by the home where their daughter was killed).

With that said, what on earth happened in Lisa's home that they never want to step foot in it. I would want to be near Lisa's things if I were mum. Do we know if Deborah took Lisa's belongings with her? If not, that's very telling to me.

Just my opinion.

Mel
 
Wouldn't the logical answer be "right now we're concerned with Lisa coming home safe, we'll decide trivial matters like that later"? I just can't even imagine trying to make such a weighty decision in the aftermath of this kind of tragedy. Wait a year, then decide.

Yes, but understanding that the family is being asked questions in a time frame where they must immediately respond---often on camera---and where they are still operating out of fear, frustration, worry, anger, and overall anxiety. They don't get the luxury of having time to think about what the "logical" answer should be, or what answer will play best in a zillion repeated sound bites. They may just say what they feel right now, and will have a different opinion tomorrow or next week.....
 
Respectfully, memories do not reside inside buildings, they are in ones mind. Did we lose the memories of our own childhood when we moved from our parents home? Do we forget our college room mate because we no longer live in the dorm, apartment or sorority? Do we forget our grandparents because their homes are sold and they move to sunny Florida?

I would respect their decision either way, I would do exactly the same thing....be gone and never come back. Others might want to cling to the spot forever. BUT.....assuming that somehow, someway my child was going to be returned.....you can bet she would NEVER ever go to sleep in that house again.

JMO....of course

I won't be debating what does and does not make memories.
 
Interesting. I can see them being scared, but they said this was caused by open window, and then an unlocked door. Unless the lock doesn't work, or the window is broken, why leave? Are they in a bad neighborhood or something? If someone had actually broken in, like broke the door or window, I could understand leaving. But this mystery kidnapper got in because a door or window was left unlocked. The first thing I would be doing is locking down everything, especially if I had no money to move anywhere. This just doesn't feel right to me. They are leaving that house a week after she was taken? I admit that it could be for good reasons, but something is just off about this to me. I can't shake it. You don't flee a house like that unless horrible happened inside of it. Then again, Zahra Baker's stepmother cleaned up the mess and kept living in her house. I guess it depends on the person. They could be scared enough to not want to be there, maybe thinking someone would take another one of their kids? I just don't know what to think!

I think it's more about the area . The older kids would play outside,ride bikes ,maybe the family comes home at times after dark. Those moments from a car to the door can put you in a vulnerable position,especially at night.
Besides the rational reasons, a mom who loses her child may not be thinking rationally. Stress,shock and lack of sleep can mess with your brain.
 
Guys...... is the foreclosure statement a theory? Please make sure you state theory for comments and links for those that are facts. Thanks.
 
I can imagine staying in a home and never changing the phone number if we were talking about an older child or an adult who might break free from kidnapper long enough to call or finally break the bonds of addiction, etc. and come home.

But Baby Lisa is not going to come home on her own and I don't think I've ever heard of a kidnapper - even the ones who ditch a kid at WalMart and run - who return the victim back to the scene of the crime.
If I were truly innocent, I cannot imagine ever being able to close my eyes and sleep in that house again. Especially with the other kids there. No way.

Now I remember. Three-year-old boy Kienan Hebert returned home unharmed four days after being kidnapped.

This was last month -- stranger abduction. It does happen, thank God :)

Moo

Mel

Source: http://articles.nydailynews.com/2011-09-11/news/30167003_1_empty-home-sparwood-dan-moskaluk
 
this lands at random...

Snark, disrespectful comments are flying in this thread. I'm not one to lose my temper but snark will do it everytime.

If you can't talk and post nicely you won't be posting! Knock it off!
 
Haven't had a chance to read through the whole thread yet, but (as usual) have to add my $.02.

If I knew my child was dead, I would most definitely move. It would be just too painful to be in the house. If, however, I believed my child to be kidnapped, I would never, ever leave the house just in case they came home some day. I'm reminded of the movie, "I Know My First Name is Steven" where the boy figures out that he was kidnapped as a child and tries to find his family.
 
Yes, but understanding that the family is being asked questions in a time frame where they must immediately respond---often on camera---and where they are still operating out of fear, frustration, worry, anger, and overall anxiety. They don't get the luxury of having time to think about what the "logical" answer should be, or what answer will play best in a zillion repeated sound bites. They may just say what they feel right now, and will have a different opinion tomorrow or next week.....

True, but one would think one of their attorneys would advise her that sometimes less said is better? Especially someone who believes she's going to be arrested for a serious crime?

I can understand someone refusing to live at homicide crime scene but so far, there is no evidence a homicide took place. Lisa may still be alive.

JMO
 
Guys...... is the foreclosure statement a theory? Please make sure you state theory for comments and links for those that are facts. Thanks.

I clearly stated several times foreclosure as a theory and that it was just my opinion.
 
Haven't had a chance to read through the whole thread yet, but (as usual) have to add my $.02.

If I knew my child was dead, I would most definitely move. It would be just too painful to be in the house. If, however, I believed my child to be kidnapped, I would never, ever leave the house just in case they came home some day. I'm reminded of the movie, "I Know My First Name is Steven" where the boy figures out that he was kidnapped as a child and tries to find his family.

Hi Just,

I guess I've just read how parents of kidnapped children refuse to change their phone number, or even move, just in case their child is looking for them. In today's age of facebook and tweets, I suppose it would be easier to move, but I don't think I could do it.

Does anyone know if they own or rent this home? That might make a difference.

That's just my personal opinion.

Thanks,

Mel
 
Now I remember. Three-year-old boy Kienan Hebert returned home unharmed four days after being kidnapped.

This was last month -- stranger abduction. It does happen, thank God :)

Moo

Mel

Source: http://articles.nydailynews.com/2011-09-11/news/30167003_1_empty-home-sparwood-dan-moskaluk

I'm on the fence, have been leaning away from DB being involved. BUT why can't they ask for their baby to be brought home? That's bugging me so bad. Maybe if they just asked, someone would return her.

Can you imagine abducting a child (say you just want one for yourself) and watching the parents in the media never asking for their baby back? Why return the baby? BUT what if you were watching and saw a mother begging for her child to be returned, telling how to care for the child to make sure the child is well cared for while abductor has her? Maybe, just maybe a little begging would tug at the heart of the abductor.

Probably all wishful thinking on my part. I want Lisa found alive.
 
Hi Just,

I guess I've just read how parents of kidnapped children refuse to change their phone number, or even move, just in case their child is looking for them. In today's age of facebook and tweets, I suppose it would be easier to move, but I don't think I could do it.

Does anyone know if they own or rent this home? That might make a difference.

That's just my personal opinion.

Thanks,

Mel

JI has owned it for 9 yrs
 
The memories they have of baby Lisa are in that house. How could they leave and never live there again? :mad:

I think the memories are in their hearts. I think I would move also. But I also understand those that would not move.
 

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