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Jessicas mother would like to join. How can she get started? Her name is Cathy. Paden is her last name i think.
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Please see belowJessicas mother would like to join. How can she get started? Her name is Cathy. Paden is her last name i think.
Hi all.
I am new to WS but figuring it out. Pls be patient with me.
I am working on getting Jessica’s mother and family on WS. Goal is to hopefully go Live with Tricia since this case needs so much more publicity! Maybe some eyes out there for an upcoming search! If anyone has any expertise they can offer to help the family, please let us know.
I only live a few hours south, and I had not heard of Jessica's case until stumbling upon it here on WS! I follow the news and social media, so it's sad that maybe there was only hyper-local coverage. After reading the entire thread, I'm not sure what I think happened. But I hope that all the focus on the river bottom in the early days didn't result in lost/degraded evidence elsewhere...
I can't believe it's going on a year since Jessica disappeared and there has been no updates, no pleas of help from bf, etc. My heart breaks for her family, especially three kids missing their Mom pretty badly right now.
Question to those of you who are familiar with this area and river...if she did fall in the river and drown, or placed in the water, would her body have likely been found by now? It sounds like the depth and conditions can vary drastically depending on the rainfall.
In the beginning though I was dubious about the circumstances I assumed still probably not foul play. I can see the scenario we have been given playing out if the couple got into an argument. She is upset, and wants to get out. He continues on and doesn't report her missing until hours later because he is POd and didn't think she was "missing", only assumes she is also PO and he can't reach her because she doesn't have her phone. He gets home, apparently he showers, she's still not home (did they live together?), then decides he better call LE to go out to look for her.
But, I don't believe that. Even if they argued wouldn't he at least make sure she got to the riverbank and off the river safely? Apparently someone got off the river since they found the spot where her boots and jacket were left, and someone had cut on a tree. If that someone were only her, and she's alive at the time, then I don't see her getting back into the river at any point for any reason (unless to get back in the boat) so she couldn't have accidentally drowned. So that means she would have had to have walked out of there and to ??? in her stocking feet and no jacket. From photos it doesn't seem so heavily wooded around the river and river bottom that if she'd had an accident or succumbed to the elements her body would have been found by now.
I have so many questions! Like, why did bf leave her purse in the boat? To be an AH? I assume when his son picked him up they gathered up everything else from the boat. And, why didn't they have proper oars? A small, flat shovel? Really? Who'd ever go down a river that was that deep on a little boat without oars/paddles? If he thought she had walked to the road to get a ride home then why did he jump right to calling LE instead of calling around to see if anyone had seen her? Presumably someone was caring for her kids while Jessica was on the river. Did he call that person or drive over to check if Jessica was there? imo that's the first place I'd look.
Those are just a few things I don't understand. With her not really being a local to the area perhaps locating her isn't a priority. (I believe she's from NY? Albany? Unless another Albany.) I don't like to generalize but my father's family is from the rural south and "the good old boy" network is still a thing in a lot places. Especially smaller communities where everybody's sister is married to everybody else's brother, and everyone and everyone's parents grew up there.
Sorry for subjecting you to my train of thought, and with my poor English no less. Thanks for bearing with me and please correct me if I have posted any wrong information.
If her mother is reading...you, Jessica's children, and the rest of her loving family are in my thoughts. I pray you find your daughter soon so you may begin healing and be able to live again, and that anyone who may be responsible for Jessica's disappearance is brought to justice.
I understand the pain. My nephew took his own life earlier this year. He was 28, too, at the time. It's very hard. My sister is struggling. All the "firsts without them" are really bad. Christmas seems like it's going to be the worst. But, the kids! We get by and we survive for them. (My nephew has two children.) And we keep their parents' memory alive, and always know what wonderful people they were in life.
*everything is jmoo*
BBM No, she is local. She is from New Albany, Mississippi which is in Union County, where she is missing from.
I don't disagree with you about the good ole boy network, but as a person who was born and raised in MS, left to live in several other regions of the US and am now back here, I know that everywhere has its own similar networking. It just depends on who you are. JMO and for the record, I definitely believe that relationships (and corruption) are playing into why this case has been swept under the rug as it as been. Its a crying shame. JMO, again.
So, so deeply sorry about your nephew. I have a daughter the same age. I cannot imagine the heartache. Hugs to you and yours.
A look back on 2021, a year of loss and change
I'm hoping some anniversary press coverage will jog some memories.
I can't believe it's going on a year since Jessica disappeared and there has been no updates, no pleas of help from bf, etc. My heart breaks for her family, especially three kids missing their Mom pretty badly right now.
Question to those of you who are familiar with this area and river...if she did fall in the river and drown, or placed in the water, would her body have likely been found by now? It sounds like the depth and conditions can vary drastically depending on the rainfall.
In the beginning though I was dubious about the circumstances I assumed still probably not foul play. I can see the scenario we have been given playing out if the couple got into an argument. She is upset, and wants to get out. He continues on and doesn't report her missing until hours later because he is POd and didn't think she was "missing", only assumes she is also PO and he can't reach her because she doesn't have her phone. He gets home, apparently he showers, she's still not home (did they live together?), then decides he better call LE to go out to look for her.
But, I don't believe that. Even if they argued wouldn't he at least make sure she got to the riverbank and off the river safely? Apparently someone got off the river since they found the spot where her boots and jacket were left, and someone had cut on a tree. If that someone were only her, and she's alive at the time, then I don't see her getting back into the river at any point for any reason (unless to get back in the boat) so she couldn't have accidentally drowned. So that means she would have had to have walked out of there and to ??? in her stocking feet and no jacket. From photos it doesn't seem so heavily wooded around the river and river bottom that if she'd had an accident or succumbed to the elements her body would have been found by now.
I have so many questions! Like, why did bf leave her purse in the boat? To be an AH? I assume when his son picked him up they gathered up everything else from the boat. And, why didn't they have proper oars? A small, flat shovel? Really? Who'd ever go down a river that was that deep on a little boat without oars/paddles? If he thought she had walked to the road to get a ride home then why did he jump right to calling LE instead of calling around to see if anyone had seen her? Presumably someone was caring for her kids while Jessica was on the river. Did he call that person or drive over to check if Jessica was there? imo that's the first place I'd look.
Those are just a few things I don't understand. With her not really being a local to the area perhaps locating her isn't a priority. (I believe she's from NY? Albany? Unless another Albany.) I don't like to generalize but my father's family is from the rural south and "the good old boy" network is still a thing in a lot places. Especially smaller communities where everybody's sister is married to everybody else's brother, and everyone and everyone's parents grew up there.
Sorry for subjecting you to my train of thought, and with my poor English no less. Thanks for bearing with me and please correct me if I have posted any wrong information.
If her mother is reading...you, Jessica's children, and the rest of her loving family are in my thoughts. I pray you find your daughter soon so you may begin healing and be able to live again, and that anyone who may be responsible for Jessica's disappearance is brought to justice.
I understand the pain. My nephew took his own life earlier this year. He was 28, too, at the time. It's very hard. My sister is struggling. All the "firsts without them" are really bad. Christmas seems like it's going to be the worst. But, the kids! We get by and we survive for them. (My nephew has two children.) And we keep their parents' memory alive, and always know what wonderful people they were in life.
*everything is jmoo*