FlowerChild
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They probably split the cremated remains between them...Brad can have his portion for his own service/memorial and Nancy's parents and family can have their portion. This way each party can do what they wish. And yes, it would be BC's decision - he could just as easily kept ALL the remains himself. While he and Nancy's family are obviously at odds at present, her parents and family did need to memorialize and honor Nancy in their own way and BC must have worked out a way they could do that - either with all or part of the remains.Ok, everyone has gone night/night so I'll pose this question for the early risers.
We've discussed at great length, Nancy's family gaining temporary custody of the children. They had to get a court order AND appear again in court
Brad Cooper was Nancy's husband. He was her next of kin. WHY did Nancy's parents get custody of Nancy's remains and take her to Canada to be buried? It seems to me, it was Brad's responsibility and right to do what he wanted with her. Was there a court order? no........Was there a verbal agreement?
Has this been asked and answered? Why did Nancy's parents take control? Why not Brad?
curious,
fran
I did find it a little odd that the children were at the memorial. At ages 2 and 4 I would have opted for a private "family" time for them to be introduced to the concept of their mother's death and found a appropriate sitter for them and their small cousins during the actual service. I believe children need to be told about death and grieving, I do not believe it's appropriate to have a 2 and 4 year old at a service where they cannot possibly understand the situation or the emotions of those present. While it might have been comforting for Nancy's family to have them there, a reminder of Nancy's legacy, K & B are facing so much turmoil, losing their mother, being separated from their father, being in an unfamiliar place - I just don't feel the service was something I would have subjected them to.
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