So I suppose it was financial gain that motivated MM to fight for custody of the children after she killed JC? I understand she most likely grew close to the children during the years they were under her care, but was her incentive really love for them and their well being that was keeping such a strong hold on the children? She knew JC's wishes (or did she?) but must have seen them as a paycheck also.
Also, for argument's sake, let's assume for a moment MM and JC were in total love with one another, each dedicated to each other and the children (as in a healthy family dynamic). Would JC have allowed MM to adopt the children under those circumstances? I wonder... My guess is not...if nothing more than out of respect for Mags and her family. When a child is adopted, it is "as if" the adopted parent is the natural parent and the birth parent never existed. Birth certificates are changed to list the adoptive parent as the natural parent. I can understand his decision, notwithstanding, a solid second marriage. I honestly see no dichotomy between his love, dedication and commitment for MM and still not wanting her to formally adopt the children. As I said earlier, if all had been rosy, there was no need for it. MM would have, for all practical purposes, been their mother and Mags would have held her place as their natural mother. Now, he certainly could have named her as their guardian if he died! But he did not...
JC and MM faced the domicile issue as well. Three members of the family were Irish citizens and one was a US citizen. Surely, JC and MM had these discussions regarding the children, adoption, guardianship etc prior to their marriage! Besides death and divorce, there would have been potential challenges by virtue of the "homelands".
I wonder if JC told MM at some point, early on, she would be allowed to adopt the children? Or, did MM think she could manipulate him into allowing an adoption? Did JC ever[ name MM as guardian in case of his death? Maybe JC did, at one time, name MM as guardian in case of his death and MM didn't know he removed her.
The adoption and guardian issue should have been addressed and documented prior to this marriage, IMO.
Forgive my rambling, disjointed post. I didn't sleep well last night and my brain hasn't completely fired up this morning. More coffee!
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