I said this in the very beginning and got slammed for it- but it's just plain negligent to send your child somewhere without checking it out. No one had the best interests of this child at heart, except maybe her aunt. The father never even visited the mother's house to see where his daughter would be living?? Even ignoring the abuse red flags we're hearing about now... you wouldn't buy a car without seeing it, you wouldn't buy a house without seeing it- how on earth can you justify sending your baby to a place you've never seen?? I am very sorry this happened, but if anyone gave this child as much thought as a piece of property this would NOT have happened.
I also said originally its a shame this baby was sent from what seemed like a beautiful home with nice things to a drug-infested house with felons. I didn't mean to say the "nicer house" is always the better home- as some pointed out, there are awful people who live in mansions and children can be better off with the less-well-off parent. I didn't mean to generalize. This isn't the case of a hard-working, loving mother struggling with finances and a rich but evil dad. I just meant we all always want the best for our children, and I don't understand how anyone could have though Shaniya could have possibly been better off living in filth when her life with dad seemed okay.
I mean, he might end up being a jerk, but he kept her alive and well for 5 years.
I also said originally its a shame this baby was sent from what seemed like a beautiful home with nice things to a drug-infested house with felons. I didn't mean to say the "nicer house" is always the better home- as some pointed out, there are awful people who live in mansions and children can be better off with the less-well-off parent. I didn't mean to generalize. This isn't the case of a hard-working, loving mother struggling with finances and a rich but evil dad. I just meant we all always want the best for our children, and I don't understand how anyone could have though Shaniya could have possibly been better off living in filth when her life with dad seemed okay.
I mean, he might end up being a jerk, but he kept her alive and well for 5 years.