Garry, I feel sincerely bad for all of the members of your family that had nothing to do with this, and became innocent victims as well. I cant begin to pretend to know how you must feel, and you have my admiration and appreciation for coming here and joing with us.
It may mean nothing at all, but your choice of words caught my attention when you said your thoughts and prayers go out to ALL of the victims families, rather than saying BOTH. Am I reading far too much into this, or do you think or fear there indeed may be more that have not yet come to light? I have always respected you and your posts since you first came here (yes, I saw the earliest posts that were deleted, and appreciated your honesty and candor), and I thank you in advance for answering this.