Bodhi
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Well, honeybun, it took my 14-year-old about 35-40 mins to walk 1.7 miles last week, which is what I think Abigail's walk home would be. He was reading and missed his stop....I was away for a few days. His older brother thought it was odd that he didn't get off the bus but just texted "Home" to my husband. About 40 mins. later my husband got a call from the 14-year-old saying he was home now.How long would you guess it would take her to walk the approximate 2 miles?
Everything turned out fine, as things generally do. But while I am following the case of a 14-year-old in our state who disappeared walking that distance after school, the parallels and both boys' reactions astounded me.
You can talk to kids about what to do in out-of-the-ordinary situations. But its kind of like stranger danger. The kids have to recognize that the person is a stranger. My older son didn't recognize this was a situation that merited a call to a parent (or to his brother). He assumed his brother stayed after school and didn't do anything.
I have re-emphasized to the younger boy to turn on his phone on the bus and to call and let someone know what is going on if something out-of-the-ordinary happens. He says he had turned his phone on but that was not his habit. I have been sending him joke texts during the school day so I can make sure he gets into the habit. He doesn't know why I am doing that but he has texted back funny answers from the bus. So, progress!