GUILTY NH - Camden Hughes, 6, suffocated, Hampton, 14 May 2011 #2

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Book seen as cry for help

A Texas mother’s self-published book about how to battle insomnia — a tome detailing her son’s temper tantrums, a bout with depression and “emotional turmoil” about losing “the love of my life” — was a desperate cry for help from an overwhelmed single mom marching down a path to destruction, a prominent criminologist said yesterday.

...more at link.

http://bostonherald.com/news/regional/view.bg?articleid=1339455&srvc=news&position=2
 
Recalling a boy ‘full of energy, full of life’

At First Baptist Church, where Camden was a Sunday school student, he was remembered as a bright, personable boy who was eager to learn and asked questions at every turn. At his elementary school yesterday, teachers recalled his angelic face, impish grin, and quick mind, how he would quickly finish his assignments, then help other students finish theirs.

“He was going to the first grade next year, but was already reading close to a third-grade level,’’ his kindergarten teacher, Whitney Bruno, said through tears yesterday at W.T. Hanes Elementary School. “He loved to grab a book off the shelf and read it to the rest of the class, and they would sit right there and listen to every word he read out of the book.’’


and...

McCrery’s former boyfriend, meanwhile, said that McCrery had bipolar disorder and took daily medication to control it. William Light, who lived with McCrery and her son from December until March, said she told him shortly after their relationship began that she had been abused by men her entire life.


SAY WHAT???? Another boyfriend? Have we heard about him?

Very sad article. :( :( :(

more...

http://www.boston.com/news/local/ma...y_slaying_of_6_year_old_boy_in_new_hampshire/
 
I wish I was convinced that JM killed Camden because of a mental illness that led her to think she was in some way helping him. In looking at everything we know so far, it looks much more like a mother simply ridding herself of her son. Maybe there will be more evidence forthcoming to support that this was not a self-motivated act. Based on what's been released thus far, JM differs from Andrea Yates by leaps and bounds in my mind.

Andrea Yates begged for help. She institutionalized herself more than once, but insurance would no longer cover it, IIRC. She told her husband that she wasn't up for more children, but he minimized her concerns and they had more children anyway. Her mental illness, PPD, and perception of religious restrictions resulted in the tragic killing of her sons. Immediately after killing her children, she proactively admitted it to her husband and LE. She explained her motive; she wanted them in a better place because she was so inadequate (in her mind). She did not run. She did not try to cover her tracks. She did not lie to her family and the childrens' school/church. She truly thought she had done the right thing and thus she faced the music.

So far, we have positive accounts of JM's mothering from a friend and her older son. I can't think of anyone who killed their child where someone hasn't spoken up on their behalf early on (probably in good faith based on what they believed or because of denial). We know that JM had drug problems, a history of taking off on road trips without telling anyone, and at least two arrests for prostitution; not suggestive of a safe and happy environment, imo..

I do hope for Camden's sake that JM took his life due to a mentally-impaired belief that she was doing the right thing for him. For now, I just can't see it based on all of her deceptive self-serving post-crime behavior. Waiting for more evidence before considering any excuses for Camden's killer. Camden, his brother and those who didn't hurt him are the only known victims, imo, at this point.

JMO...

I'm afraid you might be right. I'm trying to be optomistic.. to believe that she was terribly mentally ill and therefore took her baby's life... because it's too hard a pill to swallow to accept that someone would want to rid themselves of their child. It's so sad.

RIP sweet angel.
 
You'll notice (maybe) that I bounce back and forth, sane and deliberate or mental breakdown and acidental. As has been stated many many times, I too have difficulty wrapping my head around what's become of poor Camden.
I cannot say that I truly understand mental illness. I spent my childhood surrounded by it, but thus far I've been fortunate in that I haven't inherited or been driven to it by whatever it is that causes people to suffer with mental illness. What I can say with certainty because I was raised with it, is that my afflicted family members have done some truly bizarre things in my 41 years that, like this, I cannot wrap my head around.
Whether it be Caylee Marie or Camden Pierce, I believe strongly that there is something DRASTICALLY wrong with anyone who hurts or kills a child. I've spent fifteen years of my life raising children who weren't biologically my own. I've lived thru teenaged years and tantrums and "I hate you" a thousand times. I suffer from PMDD and in the beginning I seriously lacked parenting skills. They drove me nuts. Never, ever could I see myself doing something like this.
I still have trouble understanding why a certain relative doesn't seem to give a rat's *ss about me. He has BPD. I have no explanation for the things he does either...and neither does he really. I can accept it if JM is mentally ill. My relative talked about taking me to the beach and sacrificing me when I was 12 years old. Lucky for me, back then our society wasn't indifferent toward others as is the case today as a rule. I don't know if JM is mentally ill. I just wonder, if all of these people around her seemed to know something was wrong with her, why it is that no one seems to have done a thing to help her?
 
Regarding the blanket-I think it is reasonable to assume that law enforcement forwarded some photos to people close to Camden to confirm it was him.
 
The Boston Herald has posted an article in which they reveal excerpts from JM's book. It also identifies the man named by courts as Camden's father. He was arrested in 2008 and convicted of dealing meth and the date rape drug. He sent a letter to the court claiming that he couldn't be Camden's father. Is it possible that these "impulsive trips" of JM's weren't random or to visit a friend? Could she have been trafficking? Maybe it didn't work out this time, maybe she expected to have 'profit' waiting for her up there, and then when she got there it fell thru?
 
It is somewhat ironic that I manage a psychiatrist's office and some of the people I encounter on a day to day basis. It is also quite ironic that my children's father is bi-polar and has BPD. After ten years of marriage I divorced him, moved back in with my parent's and simultaneously went to school full-time, worked full-time and raised my kids. My father also has some kind of a mood/personality disorder although refuses to see anyone to be diagnosed. My middle daughter has Asperger's syndrome and as previously mentioned my son is ADHD.

I am not looking for sympathy an any way. Simply getting to a point. I was losing my mind. I found mental help for myself before I had a breakdown, managed to find a local facility that would provide counseling and psychiatric help for my kids that offered low income assistance to those that needed it. It never crossed my mind that because I needed help that someone would take my children. Actually I felt that the fact that I was helping myself and them only furthered to prove my love and dedication.

The that JM did not reach out if she needed help simply tells me that she was either paranoid, or much more mentally unstable than anyone realized. I KNOW that there were people and facilities that would have helped her had she only asked. She had the church, her mom, friends.... Unfortunationatly my entire point is moot in this case as the unthinkable and unfathomable has already happened. Now JM's life is forever ruined, her family's life is ruined, and poor little Camden's beautiful life is gone forever.

However, if somehow someone out there in need reads this one post and it helps someone know they are not alone and helps them find the help they need, then it would make a difference.

I will NEVER forget little Camden as long as I live.

btw: The people that helped my children and I have made our lives so much better. We now have our own home, and my family is happy again. I just wish JM's could have turned out the same.
 
We are discussing a gravely ill child, not a pet French poodle. The manager had both a professional and a moral obligation to ask what was wrong with the child and if he needed any medical help. He should have been aware of the possibility of drug overdose and alert to the symptoms, which is why that part of his story doesn't ring true. If he wasn't sure what to do or say, he could have called local police for advice.

When a tragedy occurs, it is easy for all of us to place blame. Why didn't this person do something? Why didn't that person stop it? etc etc

As responsible citizens, we all need to be watching out for kids in situations that don't seem right, and we need to pay attention to our gut. But that's just it--most of us are trusting by nature, unless we are given reason not to be.

We simply do not know how JM came across to the manager, nor do we know how his life experiences have influenced his judgment. While he may have noticed the child's demeanor enough to want to help get them into a room, he may have ultimately gotten the impression JM was a kind and caring mother that knew her son best and trusted her judgment about what medical care CH did or did not need.

We can all do Monday morning QBing, but it won't change things. I am certain that this man will never let another situation go by that may even pale in comparison without reporting it. And all we can do is report even our slightest concerns when it comes to children we meet.
 
The hotel manager did not say that he saw a normal sleepy child. He said that he knew that something was wrong. If you do call the police, you can simply ask for their advice; they will not automatically arrest anyone and throw them in prison. They might ask the woman if she needed DSS assistance etc. Traveling without money (or credit) is dangerous, and therefore the child was endangered.

BBM

I think you may be reading a little too much into his verbiage. I understood it to mean that he knew the child wasn't feeling well because he wasn't acting like a typical, active, healthy child. I think he was trying to explain why he helped them when he ordinarily may have not helped.
 
Book seen as cry for help

A Texas mother’s self-published book about how to battle insomnia — a tome detailing her son’s temper tantrums, a bout with depression and “emotional turmoil” about losing “the love of my life” — was a desperate cry for help from an overwhelmed single mom marching down a path to destruction, a prominent criminologist said yesterday.

...more at link.

http://bostonherald.com/news/regional/view.bg?articleid=1339455&srvc=news&position=2

Great article and I so respect Jack Levin, I am so glad to hear he has weighed in on this crime.

So I am thinking that if Cam had a history of 'ear infections' crap we all have had kiddos at least once get an ear infection and we all know you need antibiotics for ear infections.
I am wondering if Cam's cold in the trip turned into a full fledge ear infection? That pain is horrific. Cough syrup was not going to work. JM has no money and while Cam suffers with that pain, JM grows increasingly agitated with Cam's crying.

Hmm.
 
Ian McCrery's message to his mother is simple: “I love you. I forgive you.”

It is not easy.

His six-year-old brother, Camden Hughes, the center of his universe, is dead. His mother, Julianne McCrery, 42, is charged with his murder.



“This just seems like a nightmare and I wish I could just wake up,” he said, breaking down in tears during a phone interview Friday.

“It was horrible but it was completely out of character. It is almost like that is not my mom.”



Ian McCrery said his mother took the greatest thing in his life, and he may never be able to understand what she did, but he has to believe there is more to the story.

“I'm just trying like hell to talk to her. I'm so confused,”
McCrery said.

Ian said he wants his mother to know that he is in her corner, but also wants answers.

“I feel I deserve answers,”
he said.


I have to support my friend because the Juli McCrery that is up there, is not my Juli McCrery,” von Atzigen said.


Ian McCrery may never get the answers he is seeking, but his ability to forgive has inspired thousands on Facebook who have offered messages of support and encouragement on a memorial page created by von Atzigen with Ian's blessing yesterday. ( www.facebook.com/CamdenHughesMemorialPage )

http://www.unionleader.com/article/20110521/NEWS03/705219985/0/FRONTPAGE
 
Have there been any reports of where JM was between the sighting of her on Dennett Rd. in South Berwick, Maine, on Saturday morning and Wednesday when she was spotted in Chelmsford, Mass.?

Her movements and actions during that time would be very telling. She made quite a few cell phone calls, so I am sure LE has been able to figure that out. TIA.
 
Have there been any reports of where JM was between the sighting of her on Dennett Rd. in South Berwick, Maine, on Saturday morning and Wednesday when she was spotted in Chelmsford, Mass.?

Her movements and actions during that time would be very telling. She made quite a few cell phone calls, so I am sure LE has been able to figure that out. TIA.

Ya, very interesting indeed. Hmm, I mean after she left Camden, she had the where with all to drive the truck away and find herself to MA??? Where did she sleep, in the truck in rest stops I am guessing? What did she eat if anything? Authorities did have her checked out after they apprehended her and I think I recall them saying something like it was a physical check and not an emotional check. And finally, I am guessing she had the radio on in the truck listening to
reports about "Camden" as when the State Troopers showed up I believe I read she looked at them and said "you are here for me".

I would like to know what she did from Saturday until Wednesday morn?
 
Friendly reminder:

Balloon release tonight at 6 PM for Camden. His favorite color is green.

The sun finally shone today in Southern Maine.
 
:( somehow I don't think she'll be going there JMO

I agree, Flossie JMO. One of the 10 Commandments say Thou shalt not kill.

What a beautiful little boy! Now he is a beautiful little angel. May he rest in Heaven in Gods Love and peace.
 
"The hotel staff serves the public, and that requires being prepared to help in medical emergencies. Travelers frequently have emergencies. He could have asked the owner if he weren't sure. "

People, this is a motel manager in Hampton Beach NH were talking about. Peak season, Hampton beach is full of kids and tourists looking for a place to crash while they spend the day at the beach. Seniors hit the keno halls and listen to band concerts.

Of season it's the dregs. The motel manager is not an employee of the Ritz. He's usually someone from a halfway house in need of a job. The people who stay there are usually people between jobs who've bartered a room for doing repairs. They have to get the place ready for Memorial day after which they'll not be seen again.

One thing I noticed was the fellow resident of the motel who seemed to know a lot about someone he never saw. "we never saw her", " she's wasn't a nice person". Well how the hell do you know if you never saw her? Methinks he was on his way out to the state liquor store when the press found him.

Please don't in hindsight ask these people to be more than they can be.

Motel manager gets woken up from his recliner where he's nodded off with the tv on. Woman with sleepy kid. Sob story. Ehh what the heck. It's not that expensive, the rooms are empty. I'll help them out. No more no less. He owes nothing more. He's not a customer service specialist in the hospitality industry. He's a guy at a notel motel in the off season.
 
http://www.fosters.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20110522/GJNEWS_01/705229915/-1/fosnews

By LAURENNE RAMSDELL
lramsdell@fosters.com
Sunday, May 22, 2011

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This little boy stays on my mind, knowing he is at peace. My heart still breaks for those that loved him in life and those that now love him in his passing. I hope his brother and mother can find some way to heal their pain and make peace with each other.
 

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