This kid is breaking my heart. It seems like he was doing all the right things just trying to keep his life on track. Maybe I'm wrong about that, but it seems that way -- looking for jobs, trying to stay connected to his church, buying Christmas presents for his family -- struggling, but still trying -- to think he might have walked into the wrong situation is painful.....
Unfortunately, I think he was doing all the wrong things.
He had a job, such as it was, and what did he do? He spent days driving around Nevada, when he should have been working.
He had a pile of unsent job apps in his apartment. Why weren't they sent?
Within two miles of where he lived, were companies he could have walked right into and filled out their job applications. That's how it's done. I am very familiar with one of those companies, and they accept applications, have various jobs he could have done (or learned to do).
He had a good job at the Tribune, and when he left, he told everyone different reasons why. His family says "the winters were depressing and he didn't like working nights". His friends say "the coworkers were too worldly."
He broke up with a girl he liked, because "she wasn't pretty enough".
(That's flat-out offensive on several levels.)
He broke up with another girl, because "God says she wasn't the right one".
(Did God ever find him a perfect wife?)
I too think "poor Steven", but not because the world was treating Steven badly, but because he (apparently) did not have the necessary life skills.
I think the answer to this case, will lie in the contradictions that are within Steven...and we can't apply logic to the illogical.