A thought just popped into mind, and I haven't thought it all the way through yet, but.....
GR and ES both have family members with epilepsy - ES's kid, and GR's mom - and they've done fundraising together for awareness.
http://www.crowdrise.com/eileenremy/fundraiser/ramsaran
I'm just wondering when GR and JR met ES. Was JR friends with ES first, and then GR met her and they discovered that they had the epilepsy thing in common? Would this be a huge coincidence, that they would both have close family members so highly affected by epilepsy, or not really?
Could it be possible that GR connected to ES online
before moving to New York, formed an intimate relationship with her, and moved there to be close to her? Or did GR/JR move to New York for some other reason?