GR hadn't slept in his bedroom for weeks after JR disappeared, and tried to avoid the room as much as possible. Approximately 5 weeks. Then he decides to look around and finds some items that he allegedly hadn't seen before. He contacts the police, who had weeks earlier allegedly done a thorough search of the home, as stated numerous times in MSM. The police didn't notice these items. GR called the police and they came to the house and either took the items or logged them in. These items included lingerie boxed and neatly wrapped, and a credit card purchase receipt.
Besides the obvious, what is striking about this is that from what I know, police don't usually clean up after searching, and neatly put things back in their proper place. So why weren't these items noticed before?
Why didn't GR do his own search after the police left...just for good measure?
What made him go back into the room he had mostly avoided for quite some time?
So let me get this strait....
I've never had my home searched, but if I did (for a missing spouse and guilt was not driving my actions) after LE left I would be allll up in my rooms. I'd want to know what they took, and what they didn't. I'd want to ensure they didn't overlook things I felt were "important" to the investigation. I'd check to see if they dusted for fingerprints (that dust everywhere would probably drive me bat***** so I'd wanna clean it up right away). I'd want to check to make sure nothing was broken, and for me-I'd want to clean up any mess as quickly as possible. ESPECIALLY if I still had kids in the house-one of the few "easy" things I could do to give them a sense of normalcy.
Assuming she just up and left...he would miss her even if he were disappointed in her. Oftentimes the bedroom is where most married couples talk about the important "stuff", especially if they have kids. That's where he could go to think about her, or even "smell her smell". There are usually good memories in a couples bedroom (not just sexual ones).
So in those 5 weeks, he never once went in there to think, or to feel closer to her, or to check out the "aftermath" of the search? I would be combing through everything my missing spouse had regular contact with , just to try to find something, anything, that might help me find him. He didn't think in those 5 weeks "Maybe I need to go in there and check it out for myself? Maybe I should go see if I can figure out what clothes/shoes she took"...He wants to be so helpful and cooperative to LE, but he never tried to do one of the easiest things he could?
And THEN when he does finally go in there to look around....the only thing he finds of relevance is some lingerie she "secretly" bought? The only thing he finds is something that could further prove the "she was talking to someone else and probably met up with him" story? Really??????
And imo, the idea that she "secretly" bought some lingerie means absolutely nothing. I don't consult my husband when I do that. 9 times out of 10 it's SUPPOSED to be a surprise for him!!!! And the fact that it was gift wrapped also means absolutely nothing. Maybe she was going to give it to him as a "gift". DUH!:banghead:
