I think the deception is purposeful.... and people are confusing two different things. Someone admitted a "tryst"- i.e. one night stand... but not an affair.
As I have stated before more than once.... they are two different things- as well as two different people; one much closer to Jen, and one much closer to another source of MSM/verified information
I think the deception is purposeful.... and people are confusing two different things. Someone admitted a "tryst"- i.e. one night stand... but not an affair.
As I have stated before more than once.... they are two different things- as well as two different people; one much closer to Jen, and one much closer to another source of MSM/verified information
Quoted from the top of the NAMPN guide to what to do when a loved one goes missing.
'File a missing person's report..' (First sentence, first box on page.)
'When speaking to LE it is important to be completely honest..' (Second sentence, first box on page)
GR followed guidance to the letter. As I said, great presence of mind in such traumatic circumstances. Very brave to be so honest, so fast.
Almost made me forget he must have had at least some ability to lie, given that it was deceiving his wife he was admitting to.
http://www.nampn.org/mpchecklist.pdf
There was a mention upthread I think about GR wanting to report Jennifer missing very early, I think?
It's interesting the possibility is now being raised that his tryst was mentioned to LE very early on too.
With the disappearance of his wife being so unexpected, GR obviously could not have been thinking these things through in advance. So I am astounded he was able to grasp the vital concepts of early missing persons' reports and full disclosure to LE so rapidly. In the midst of all that trauma.
He must be a very self-possessed and clever man, in my opinion.
Was it rumour or confirmed that luggage was missing from the home?
This is my reasons just from his quoted words. I have plenty more for all the other facts and strange dealings in this horrible event.
Quotes
The Daily Star-12/19/12 - Only eight days after she is reported missing.
I hate to say this but I have given up hope that shell be found safe and sound.
Really, after eight whole days?
Other quotes reported in TDS 1/30/2013
Ganesh Ramsaran, a fitness buff who runs in marathons, said in recent months his wife appeared to be depressed, and had begun to diet after her weight climbed to 210 pounds.
Before she went missing, she lost 20 pounds, he said. Lets just say it was not the healthy way (to lose weight). When she dropped to 190 pounds, he said, it put her at her lowest weight since she first became a mother in 1999.
There were lots of behavioral changes, he said. I was so proud of her that she was 190.
Heartless, put down statements.
The husband provided a partial answer when asked if his wife ever discussed leaving the household where the two have been raising three children.
Nothing like that, not with me, he said. But apparently ... on ... yeah, not with me. I will leave it at that. I dont want to go anywhere like that.
Always ready to plant a unsubstantiated seed.
If you could just jot this down for me the kids miss their mom, and I miss her, too, he said. The kids miss their old mom, not the one that was here the last six or nine months when she went through all the different changes.
This is the statement that tore it for me. Is he really trying to say the kids didn't love her or care for her in the last six or nine months? It sounds to me that he is trying to reason why he did what he did.
My husband who find the good in everyone and everything, can reason away almost everything (he is the kid's lawyer after all) after reading all the articles said that GR either did it himself, had someone help him or had someone else do it. Either way he sure seems to want to portray that he sure has had to endure alot being married to her, the saintly physical specimen of man that he is and they are really better off without her. Again, heartless.
Outside the box theory/ possibility....jmo/ throwing it out there....(don't believe it myself but its something different than the great friend who goes out of his way to help people being a killer)...
Could the "tryst-partner" have wanted more. I think it was mentioned here that she had left her husband and went back right before JR disappeared. Perhaps she left him with the expectation GR would too leave. He didn't for whatever reason, trystee being upset goes back to her husband but feels GR should be hurt emotionally too and threatens him with this. Payback sort of for playing her. So he has guilt about the affair, knows who may of caused harm but feels guilty because if he didn't hurt her emotionally she would not have acted out and on some level he cares for trystee. So he tells LE immediately of affair because either he wants them to know to look at this person getting the attention away from him or because he knew it would come out about the relationship eventually. I just find it odd to tell LE bout an affair and with who when it was so long ago (supposably). Seems it would be further in the back of his mind that night and other things like her former employer, church stuff, knitting class would be more forefront. Feeling guilt for his actions/mistakes causing two women he cares about harm he becomes the accomplice in covering up what trystee did.
Great post! I have always found this part odd - If you could just jot this down for me"
Like make sure you get this part. Wanting to make sure that worst thing that anyone could ever say about a mother gets into the article.
Making sure the whole basis of his story gets into the article.
Outside the box theory/ possibility....jmo/ throwing it out there....(don't believe it myself but its something different than the great friend who goes out of his way to help people being a killer)...
Could the "tryst-partner" have wanted more. I think it was mentioned here that she had left her husband and went back right before JR disappeared. Perhaps she left him with the expectation GR would too leave. He didn't for whatever reason, trystee being upset goes back to her husband but feels GR should be hurt emotionally too and threatens him with this. Payback sort of for playing her. So he has guilt about the affair, knows who may of caused harm but feels guilty because if he didn't hurt her emotionally she would not have acted out and on some level he cares for trystee. So he tells LE immediately of affair because either he wants them to know to look at this person getting the attention away from him or because he knew it would come out about the relationship eventually. I just find it odd to tell LE bout an affair and with who when it was so long ago (supposably). Seems it would be further in the back of his mind that night and other things like her former employer, church stuff, knitting class would be more forefront. Feeling guilt for his actions/mistakes causing two women he cares about harm he becomes the accomplice in covering up what trystee did.
If that 'miss the old Mom' comment is read carefully, you'll see it's not a slur on Jennifer. It's a slur on others.
And the most damaging comment that anyone has ever made in this case, I should think. Upon those least able to defend themselves.