Several years ago, a young lady I know went to Hazelden in Minnesota for rehab (pain pills). Although I knew where she was, half of her family didn't, boyfriend didn't, and direct supervisor at work didn't.
When her sister told our employer the reason for her no-call, no-show...she was (by the grace of God and a nice boss!) not terminated. They (our kind office manager and co-worker) attempted to call and verify her location..just worried about her...and Hazelden wouldn't say ONE WORD in regards to whether or not she was there. Letters not mailed with her Unit (her precise unit name - if it matters, the name is <modsnip>, they have several - point being, you can't just write Unit One and get the letter in) wouldn't be delivered.
The point? She was in such a state prior to flying to MN from Chicago that she didn't even tell her job. I asked her about this later - she's healthy, happy, and a great Mom, nowadays - and she said that she couldn't worry about saving her job...that her life was in the balance.
FWIW.
It should be noted that I suspect he took off. But prescription pain pill abuse is on the rise, and it can and does affect anyone - regardless of income bracket.
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