Meri
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You know, after hearing that she has the mentality of an 8th grader, if that is true, I do have some compassion for her. She may not know what the "right" thing to do is, she may feel trapped.
We adopted our 16 year old daughter at age 5.5. She has fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (mom drank while pg), she has complicated memory issues and a lower IQ. Had we not adopted her, I could very well see her in the same situation. My girl can feel "trapped" when caught not doing her chores, schoolwork, etc. Just very basic things. I have to be careful how I word things with her.
This is a good reminder for me to teach her about emergencies should she marry and have children...
BBM: I thought she had the education of an 8th grader, not the mentality of one?