Is "Maumee" pronounced anything like "Mommy"? I know, really strange question...
ETA: just searching for images of Elaina on google and found both of these back to back - are these both of her mom?
(source -
http://www.toledoblade.com/Police-Fire/2013/06/07/Police-scour-river-for-toddler.html )
and
(caption on this one says it is her mom - source -
http://www.toledoblade.com/gallery/...a-Steinfurth-continued-in-around-Maumee-River )
When asking for people to help make her comfortable, perhaps she was really asking for a place to sit, since perching on vehicle bumpers can't be that comfy. (her stance makes me uncomfortable - it's so defeatist looking. Like there's no hope. I'd be standing tall craning my neck to see what I could see, rather than averting my gaze from other people's eyes and staring at the ground, avoiding seeing ANYTHING intentionally... but maybe these pics don't really speak a thousand words.... maybe)
edit - found a caption for the first pic, yes that's also her mother. hmm.