I really hope AS and SK didn't throw baby Elaina in that river. Where else could they have put her? What does everyone think about whether they put her in the river or somewhere else? And what does everyone think the reasons could be that TPD asked the judge to delay until Monday? I would think they'd have more than one reason, at least I hope so. Just very frustrated. And sad as well as angry.
I know she had a lawyer at her first court appearance, but I don't remember his name
Is it weird that we haven't heard anything about/from AS's lawyer? Does she have one yet? I would think one of those celeb defense attorneys would have swooped in by now.
Don't we all want a fairytale ending to this story? She's been in the care of a wonderful great aunt of a cousin twice removed from AS all these weeks. Baby Elaina is happy and healthy and enjoying life as a toddler in the month of June in Toledo, Ohio. God, that is my desire here. But, look at the house in which she was last seen alive! Look at the video of the mom swatting her with a magazine at the edge of the porch! Listen to the stories of the verbally and physically abusive mom and the recovering heroine-addicted boyfriend. What is the reality?
I always want to ask, "Why?"
Traumagenic dynamics- trauma is passed down through generations. AS is several generations in the making. According to her sister, their mother was not in their lives. Was AS abandoned by her mother? Was she left unprotected? Was she 'thrown away' or 'tossed in life's murky waters and swift currents'? History repeats itself.
To me, AS is looking like a typical borderline (personality disorder): depression; anxiety; substance abuse; impulse control; black and white thinking; fear of abandonment; raging; etc. It's a serious mental illness. It doesn't mean she's not responsible for her actions. It does, however, explain her self-destructive nature and her disassociation/disconnection from her feelings/empathy.
I fear her sweet baby girls have always been at risk for severe abuse and/or neglect.
I'm wondering if any mental health professionals lurking on this board can explain the subconscious abandonment fears that plague borderline moms when their babies start to walk. I have been told they will defend against that inevitable independence on the baby's part by abandoning the baby first, either emotionally or physically, or both?
Could that phenomenon be at the heart of this "disappearance"?
I have been following this case almost non stop. I have never been on WS this much nor as often.
We know nothing or at least nothing new. It is all conjunctures being discussed between members.
This is becoming/has become a case like dozens of others. A child disappears, we sort of know (at least to some extent) what happened and by whom and yet they walk away and after a while it is all forgotten.
It is so sad, it is unbelievable. Boy/girl friends, drugs, everything is more important than they are.
To me, AS is looking like a typical borderline (personality disorder): depression; anxiety; substance abuse; impulse control; black and white thinking; fear of abandonment; raging; etc. It's a serious mental illness. It doesn't mean she's not responsible for her actions. It does, however, explain her self-destructive nature and her disassociation/disconnection from her feelings/empathy.
I fear her sweet baby girls have always been at risk for severe abuse and/or neglect.
I'm wondering if any mental health professionals lurking on this board can explain the subconscious abandonment fears that plague borderline moms when their babies start to walk. I have been told they will defend against that inevitable independence on the baby's part by abandoning the baby first, either emotionally or physically, or both?
Could that phenomenon be at the heart of this "disappearance"?
I pray that this sweet baby, Elaina, is safe and wrapped in loving arms right now. Mostly, I hope that her beautiful, sad eyes are sparkling and twinkling with joy and peace. This is the kind of story that makes me so badly want to believe in God. Elaina deserves that kind of love and protection.
I think AS has been trying to draw attention to that river from the beginning, which makes me think she is nowhere near there. We've got witnesses who saw her and SK out around midnight the night before. I believe we've also heard that SK picked AS and the children up from somewhere. We see on the video what looks like AS walking away with Elaina only so I'm still wondering where K was at this time and how they ended up all together for SK to pick them up and where they were at the time. Also what time was it when SK picked them up and what condition was Elaina in at that time? What did that text message that only SK could help her mean?
SK has to be involved somehow because he seems to be sticking to the story that Elaina was fine until she was put down for a nap. But he also seems to be abandoning the "mysterious intruder" storyline by suggesting AS was in and out of the house prior to Elaina going missing. I believe he was lying and that Elaina was removed from the house either around midnight or sometime during one of the "store runs" in the AM.
I suppose the river part could be true but unfortunately there just seems like there could be so many other alternatives given that we can't even pinpoint when Elaina disappeared from the house.
MOO
Ummm as a borderline personality disorder sufferer I disagree, one of my babies already walks (I have no abandonment issues with him walking) and number 2 baby is just starting to try to walk (again no issues)
I agree her baby girls could have always been at risk, for me I currently take meds, am looked after fortnightly by mental health to ensure I'm ok, because if I'm ok, then my babies are. Borderline a are more common to self harm than anything..
Respectfully I disagree with your statement "typical borderline" as to be honest every borderline is different we only have to exhibit 5 of 9 issues on the scale to be diagnosed with this
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This is a video of the walk tonight. They are walking past the King home.
While chanting "Bring Elaina Home!".
RS was kind enough to block the end of Federal so cars wouldn't run us over.
I've not followed this sad case closely enough to know the details, but I had figured the lawyer we saw in court was appointed aka a Public Defender. Does anyone know for sure?
~jmo~
I've been looking at our maps made by great members here. Does anyone remember who the local was who said she saw buzzards around the Hollywood Casino? I wonder if she ever called that into the police?......If I were a local, I'd search the shore by the casino (buzzards), and I'd probably search under the bridge that takes 75 across the river, too, for good measure. .
Was last night the fundraiser at Tequila Shiela's too? Any updates?
I believe they were headed somewhere for that but I don't know where it was.