SophieRose
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You said it is up to the individual to 'grow up' and take care of themselves. And I said is that true also in the case of people with mental health issues? I know that my brother cannot fully care for himself. if my mother had not been so proactive he would have been dead or in prison, most likely.
I believe that a parent has a lifelong responsibility to their children if that child has mental/emotional disabilities. You cannot just wash your hands of them and walk away when they turn 18. JMO
ETA:
" ...but once you hit adulthood its on you to take care of yourself. "
I met a woman whose 20-something daughter was having mental problems. The mother took her to the hospital where she was admitted to the mental health unit. I'm not sure how long she was there but the mother was there when the daughter was diagnosed with bi-polar I. After that, the daughter did not want her mother visiting, did not want her mother in on the treatment plan. She was informed by the staff that her daughter was an adult and it was her daughter's decision not to include her and nothing could be done about it. I bet that happens frequently.