I don't know, of course, but I could speculate. It may very well be that joran developed a superior attitude towards the local Arubans. It happens in these Countries. As I understand it, his family was well-to-do there and it wouldn't surprise me if joran considered himself to be a big-shot. I'm guessing, he could probably get any young girl he wanted there and could get away with anything.
That makes sense to me.....he had a sweet line of credit from his father to go casino hopping and found that the girls there were in abundance, he was doing his thing.
If and I'm only saying IF, he had already been lying to Melody as she stated, he found he could do anything he wanted to and get away with it.
He was riding high and mighty - carte blanche thanks to his money and connections there where the establishments knew him and his family but
never stopped him because of his age.
AIMO