I agree that they need to get to the police station and make up for the time they have been wasting. That is the part that gets to me...refusing seperate interviews, along with the fact that it took so long to get the children interviewed a second time. I know that DB and JI, along with the children, were interviewed in the beginning. So what. Conflicting information came out after the initial interviews, along with many different characters that the parents need to explain their relationship with...TO FIND OUT WHAT HAPPENED TO THEIR BABY. Maybe DB and JI will not be honest about those relationships when they are being interviewed together and the police know that. I know that one can never truly say what they would do in this situation, until it happens to them. BUT I do know that if you are innocent, then you have nothing to hide. You do what the police ask you to do, because THEY are the ones that are going to help you find your baby. If you go in and they accuse you of doing something that you didn't do...you cry, you tell the truth over and over.
They aren't going to "break you" because you are innocent! You have nothing to be broken of. You do this as many times as is needed, because what is the alternative? Not getting the help needed to find your baby because you get your feelings hurt during the interviews. Doesn't make sense to me, unless you don't want your baby to be found. I have done Behavioral Health Therapy with children and how do children react when they are guilty and are afraid of being caught? Sometimes they talk too much to cover up their lies and then give out too much information. What happens when they give out too much information and realize they are about to be caught in their lie? They either continue to tell lies and eventually get caught OR they shut you out because they know if they keep talking you will find out the truth. When that doesn't work, they go into denial and defense mode. They blame you. They blame the dog. They blame their sibling. In my opinon only, we have two people trying to save their own behinds. The only difference between them and the children I have worked with is that they have expensive attorneys to keep them from talking, that they can then blame for the reason why they are not talking or trying to find their little girl. Oh, and the cops are to blame instead of the dog. I think that pretty much covers it. Sorry for the rant, but I started reading Websleuths specifically when little Lisa went missing and it is has been hard for me not to join and give me opinion. Now that I have joined in, I am afraid I will not get any work done
By the way, I understand that some people truly believe that DB and JI are innocent and I respect this and I truly HOPE that they are because the thought of Baby Lisa alive and well is wonderful...but unfortunately, I don't see anything that they have done or are doing as the actions of innocent and caring parents. I would love to be proven wrong.