Your points are so well made. I direct people's attention to more of that exchange between Arias and Travis on 5/26, because he was expressing so much of what you wrote:
Texts/ IM/ Email, etc that were not shared in the guilt phase but are now included in the sentencing phase (as reported by the tweeters)
TA - "You are relentless in your torture of people that have loved you and protected you and served you and what do you do? You try to destroy them, you are the lowest of the low"
TA -"You are sick and evil and knowing you makes me want to kill myself in punishment...... I'm so stupid".
TA -" I don't even know if you are human"
JA - "I am so sorry. If anyone should it is me. You are light upon this world. I can't even compare"
TA - "Hitler had more conscious"
TA - "Send your piece of **** lie fest so I can mock it"
TA - "We already know based on all the last emails you sent and then invaded my privacy that it is ********"
TA - "Yeah, you are a three hole wonder, you are good for something"
TA - "I loved someone that never existed, what I thought was real never existed. Finish your worthless email"
TA- "I know you got into my computer and erased an email to Lisa"
TA- "You stole my journals, you slashed my tires, and I know it"
JA - "I may be a coward, I may be a *advertiser censored*, but the one thing I am not is violent. I did not slash your tires"
TA- "You never saw me of more value as a piece of **** unless I was serving some purpose to U. I am less than nothing to you."
JA - "I really did love you, but I let it get so distorted. I am so sorry. I have no excuse. none."
TA - "You tried to murder me from the inside out..... how could you?"
TA- "Why did you manipulate me into loving you? I was a good guy?"
TA- "Why did you have to do it to me? Why did you hate me? What was your objective, what was the point?"
JA - "I don't know what you mean ruin you? I would never set out to deliberately do that to you."
JA- "The sexual part of me was an unevolved way of trying to be more loved"
JA - "I knew you weren't in love with me. I knew you cared, but that it wasn't that kind of love"
JA - "My sex drive is gone.."
TA-"I doubt that "
"Jodi tells Travis she's been a bad influence. He says he's not mad about that"
JA- "There's no excuse for me to be alive"
TA -"I want a real answer"
TA "Yes, I'm addicted to it. I keep taking you back and you know it. You know I'll get pissed but I'll take you back"
JA- "Honestly, aside from what I wanted to say, it was me that wanted to hear your voice just once"
JA- "It's a little fix, your not the only one who is addicted"
JA- "What's the purpose, it's not marriage, it's just sex"
JA - "Here I come looking like an angel, speaking sweetly, acting nicely, pleasing you in many ways...."
JA -"I don't want to continue to breath"
TA "I was a dildo with a heartbeat to U"
JA "But you were not just a piece of meat"
Very powerful. Thanks g-charles.
I have a hard time believing that TA let JA into the house that night.
How could he have, with such anger and frustration?
Wouldn't JA have been the last person he would have wanted to see?