Now that you mention it I thought she left to live with a guy at 15yrs. I wondered why her parents seemed to do nothing. I'll have to check. :seeya:
They were probably happy to be rid of her!
BBM
Jodi was 15 when she met Bobby, just after they moved to Yreka. She was 17 and in the 11th grade (junior year) when she moved out. Jodi was held back a year in 1st grade thus the reason she was 17 in 11th grade and quit school to go live with Bobby, who had no job or means to support himself let alone her!
I included the "abuse" Jodi claims that caused her to move out - being pushed into the door frame.
From my transcript: ("Facial Tell" is my polite way of avoiding the use of LizardLick)
2:04:10
KN: Okay.
Why did you leave your parents home to go live with your boyfriend?
JA: Um
I was kind of
becoming tired of the discipline, and
I was three months until I was 18 and um
(Facial Tell!) One day they um
decided to ground me until I was 18 because I was
I skipped one period in high school because there was a final, or my um
I was taking a college history class, U.S. History, and I wasnt
I didnt feel like I had adequately studied for the exam so I skipped that period
to study for the exam. And um
decided I would make it up the next day, so I parked my car (gesturing) in the parking lot of Rite Aid and just cracked open the book and I was studying it for that hour, and my dad (gesturing) somehow he found me and
its a small town, so
and so
um
I guess the school notified him that I wasnt present for that class, so he found me and um
At that point
they didnt use physical discipline that day, but
I was grounded
till I was 18 so I couldnt fathom being grounded for three months when
When youre grounded in my house, it meant no phone, no T.V., no friends, no social functions of any kind. Um
(gesturing) youre in your room. Period. So
Um
2:05:31
KN: So let me ask you this. Um
This would have been towards the end of your senior year in high school or was this at the end
JA: Yeah, it was in May, I think.
2:05:40
KN: Okay. So of your senior year or your junior year?
JA: May or April
Um
my junior year. Yes.
2:05:47
KN: Okay. So you dropped out of high school before you finished your junior year. Is that right?
JA: No,
I did finish the junior year, mostly with Ds and Fs
um
because toward the end of the year I just let it all fall apart.
2:06:05
KN: You mentioned discipline. You talked about grounding.
Was there any particular physical incident or an incident of abuse that motivated you to leave your parents home?
JA: Um
Yes. One of the
the incident I described where I was
(pause) knocked against
I called it a door post. I guess its a door frame.
Umm
then
at that point I was
the guy I was dating,
we started to talk about me possibly moving in with him so after that incident, I began to um
surreptitiously pack boxes of my things and start moving them out to his house, and um
then when it came,
when they finally grounded me until I was 18 (gesturing), all of my stuff mostly was there, and I thought, Im just going to go ahead
I was going to wait until I was 18 to move in with him but, it was 3 months away and it just made sense to me at the time
as a 17-year-old, so
I just moved out.
...
KN: Okay. So let me ask you this, um
as it relates to Mr. Juarez,
when did you meet him?
JA: I first met him
the first summer that I moved to Yreka when I was 15. Um
the uh
carnival comes to town and so I was there with the girl I mentioned that my mom introduced me to. Um
her and
her sister, we were there, and I saw him (gestures) walking in a crowd with a few other friends, and he caught my eye. He was very intriguing looking. (Gestures) He was kind of dressed like
18th Century Goth, kind of. Um
he was