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Adji poor little boy![]()
Adji I know it off T . but a few days ago they said they had new leads. than puff
Adji poor little boy![]()
It really doesn't sit well does it. I can't really see proposing under the circumstances, but that being said I could see them saying that they are going to have a wedding as soon as their flower girl comes home. That they want to make their family official after this is all done with.
Nothing says you don't see your kid coming home like getting married while they are gone. It's not like you would want to include her, or not make major changes to the world she knew before she was taken and returned deeply traumatized.
leave the non verified rumors off this thread. If you want to talk rumors do so here rumor thread haleigh cummings
Well he must be angry because of everyone talking about him and accusing him of having something to do with his daughters disappearance... but thats just a guess. Everything you read about him, whether its here or at other forums people bash him. (he's this, he's that, he's poor, he's abusive, he's a druggie) His daughter is missing and there is NOTHING he can do that will be right in the media or publics eyes. Maybe he don't have respect and isn't very polite because noone shows him respect, or is polite to him. (Lets be honest here, we all read what everyone says about him on this forum and others)
I find it silly that people sit here (or the media, whatever) and say things like "omg he's getting married, what a jerk... his d is missing, I would never do that" but how do you know what you would do in THAT situation? Are your children (this is general, not directed at you or anyone in particular) home safe in bed? I bet they are, so you don't know what or how you would react in the situation. No matter what you say or think, you just don't know....
My first thought was good for them. Maybe this has brought them closer. (Struggles pull 2 people closer) and they wanted to get married and commit to eachother, she is 17 its not like shes 14 or 15... I honestly don't see what the big deal is.
Congrats to them.
I'm sorry - this case has been a stinker from the beginning and it just keeps getting worse! They cannot go back into the house because of all the memories and the pain...but they can plan a wedding?????? I know that everyone has their own reactions, but you could not drag me away from that property because I would be hoping that little girl would somehow manage to find her way home and I could not bear not to be there!
Wonder where the honeymoon will be?
Somethings wrong here....are we talking about Ron C. whose little girl, Haleigh, is missing?? Or...some other guy named Ron C. who just won the lottery, quit his job, plans to buy a house and just proposed to his gf?
Please excuse me, in advance, for being cynical.
I believe actions are driven in the most part by MONEY ... apparently the missing child business is very lucrative in FL (not to mean that ALL parents are exploiting their missing child)
some questions that went thru my mind when hearing this news:
~~I wonder if this is all a set up to get the Media to continue to provide coverage (it has been rather quiet)
~~I wonder if money has been paid for photos of upcoming wedding
~~I wonder if the only reason this poor child is missing is because someone close to her heard how another family of previously missing child of a similar name is raking in big media $$ for things such as photos, videos, interviews, book & movie offers
~~I wonder if this makes the plot of the lifetime movie more interesting.
As I said, I am very cynical this week. Bad week. I have really held out hope for this baby being found alive, and time is marching on, and I know that is not a good thing. I have been so consumed with these 2 cases that at times, I ignore my own families needs (such as laundry & vacuuming, been ordering dinner out more often) I couldn't imagine being that close to the situation and thinking of getting married.
Always, my opinion only.
Are you kidding? My butt is numb! :crazy:
I've been eating cereal allot this week, am behind in paying bills, and my cats have disowned me!![]()
I never thought either of them were guilty before, but I am rethinking everything now. Ole Misty looks like she swallowed the canary in the interview!!
Calling someone dumb bi*** is public is not abusive ? Imagine what goes on behind closed doors....
I have been stunned this entire time Ron didnt throw Misty out on her ear.
Sorry but to me, it seems like just another staging to throw off the investigation to make everyone think he is okay with her, and her neglect and numerous changing and conflicting stories, to make her look better, and her butchered stories stronger. IMO they are covering eachother and using this to strengthen their bond of secrecy. MOO
Well he must be angry because of everyone talking about him and accusing him of having something to do with his daughters disappearance... but thats just a guess. Everything you read about him, whether its here or at other forums people bash him. (he's this, he's that, he's poor, he's abusive, he's a druggie) His daughter is missing and there is NOTHING he can do that will be right in the media or publics eyes. Maybe he don't have respect and isn't very polite because noone shows him respect, or is polite to him. (Lets be honest here, we all read what everyone says about him on this forum and others)
I find it silly that people sit here (or the media, whatever) and say things like "omg he's getting married, what a jerk... his d is missing, I would never do that" but how do you know what you would do in THAT situation? Are your children (this is general, not directed at you or anyone in particular) home safe in bed? I bet they are, so you don't know what or how you would react in the situation. No matter what you say or think, you just don't know....
My first thought was good for them. Maybe this has brought them closer. (Struggles pull 2 people closer) and they wanted to get married and commit to eachother, she is 17 its not like shes 14 or 15... I honestly don't see what the big deal is.
Congrats to them.
I can see how Misty at 17, given her history, would see marriage as validating and promising of some sort of security. That said, while I understand Misty's excitement at the prospect of being a wife to Ron, I can hardly comprehend why Ron wants to marry Misty (something about bovines and free milk comes into play here). So it begs the question if Ron is perhaps marrying Misty as some sort of appeasement to her, then why?
I keep typing and backing up and typing and backing up. I already am miffed that he can't stand to move back into that trailer. Most parents would want to be with their childs stuff and her memories in a time like this. Guilty people however, don't want to be reminded that they did something wrong! BIG RED FLAG!!! And now he's marrying the person who lost his child? He wants to marry someone who can't string a sentence together to explain coherently what happened when your child went missing?
There is all kinds of wrong here.
Misty's mother said that the ring was a Cummings family ring. If so, then RC didn't spent his money on it. I'm a bit on the fence with this news. The timing doesn't seem appropriate. On the other hand, it's very symbolic. It enables RC and MC to show solidarity as a family. It implies that they have hope that Haleigh will be returned to them and that they are preparing a stable environment for her and Jr. If I look at this from an outside view, I may be skeptical, but if I look at it from their view, it makes sense.This is unbelievable!!!!! What else can be said???? By a ring for your 17 year old girlfriend, and your daughter is missing???? How about donating that money towards Haleigh!!!!!!!!!! How quick they seem to move on!!! I know this sounds harsh, but what else can be said?????? I know it is probably not right but I would have a hard time even looking at the person my child was LAST seen with and now missing WITHOUT a TRACE!!!!!!!!!!! I was pulling for Ron until NOW!!!!!!!! A good dad, I am sorry but what ARE his PRIORITIES??? HONESTLY!!!!!!! Can't talk to the media because they bad mouth him, nut can talk about his engagement!!!!!!! Is it just me or is this situation getting worse day by day????? JMO JMO