SC - Heather Elvis, 20, Myrtle Beach, 18 Dec 2013 #18 **ARREST**

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carbuff said:
We're speculating based on details that are coming out in his wife's social media. Things like her name tattooed on his belly, comments about things she makes him do, etc.
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Ah. So except for the tattoo outline, which we can see for ourselves, all else may be complete fiction. :banghead: And even with the tattoo, there is no verification that she "made" or "ordered" him to do that, just more rumor.
 
ChristYTN said:
Even if he is 'controlled' or 'abused'.... I have zero sympathy for him.
I've seen eluded posts to it and to me....he's an old man that placed a very young woman in a dangerous situation and the age thing is gross and sick.

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I don't have any sympathy for him but it might explain some of his behavior...or it might not.
 
Madeleine74 said:
Ah. So except for the tattoo outline, which we can see for ourselves, all else may be complete fiction. :banghead: And even with the tattoo, there is no verification that she "made" or "ordered" him to do that, just more rumor.
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Yep. Just like nearly everything else in this case.

p.s. I probably should have included a caveat in my earlier posts to the effect that TM's posts could be fantasy, but I assumed everybody already knew that :p
 
Prayers that Heather will be located . Prayers that strong charges are to follow soon for the "not so happy couple "
 
bestill said:
Totally hypothetical here...what if Sid started spilling when he went to Grand Strand early Thursday am. He told LE info that the needed to move this forward. LE in turn used this opportunity Friday to move in. Sidney's mug shot looks like a defeated man to me. And now he's cooperating and sharing with his appointed attorney. Tammy would have no idea what's going on and Sidney could bargain truth for time, before she gets the chance. The timing of all that happened this week makes me really think there's a lot going on behind the scenes.
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I've thought the EXACT same thing. I've questioned why he'd go to the hospital the night of the gun incident if he hadn't been harmed... unless he was suffering from extreme anxiety and/or a panic attack, some type of distress, etc.

This is my theory:

SM really was planning to leave his wife. He asked HE to meet him at PTL to talk about it. HE called BW and sounded upset because she was feeling a mix of emotions... happy because this showed her that he truly did care about her and she wasn't just "the other woman", confused and worried because she's only 20 years old & not prepared for a 38 year old man to leave his wife for her & feel obligated to be with him, mad because is this just another attempt to string her along or reel her back in because he found out about her date, and terrified because she knew how explosive and vile TM might be if she finds out they're together.

I think she probably agreed to at least meet him at PTL to sort it all out. TM either followed SM or found/read messages before SM left to go meet her and said the three are going to settle this issue for good and demanded to ride out to PTL to discuss it. From this point on... there are too many different possibilities to theorize but I think she may have A) meant to either scare the crap out of HE & inadvertently killed her or B) killed her in a crazed fit of range.

In either scenario, I think she told SM that he had to help her get rid of the evidence because all signs point to him because he's the last person she talked to... she would play the role of the poor wife who got cheated on and likely make up some BS about him being verbally or mentally abusive and act as if she had no idea he'd still been in contact with her. So, SM felt he had no other choice but to oblige.

He's likely been an emotional wreck the past two months if the theory above applies because he really did care about HE and he knows he'll never see her again & that he helped his wife get away with it... not to mention the threats and harassment made... and he's been sitting there watching his wife post all kinds of non-sense on SM sites to stir the pot.

And so when things started escalating and people started shooting at his truck and/or pointing shot guns at his head, he cracked. He feared for his life. He thought about how the feelings of paranoia and the constant waiting for the other shoe to drop will follow him around for the rest of his life... and then everything he's been holding in for the past two months exploded. He was likely having a panic/anxiety attack when the police arrived to file the PR & they suggested he go to the hospital. He agreed & spilled the beans to a medical professional... who might have encouraged him to tell the police or he told the doctor that he/she should notify the police... he might have expected the arrest and warrant was coming but TM had no clue.

He was questioned more extensively/thoroughly by LE yesterday morning, to get more detailed info about where/what to look for & that's the reason for SM's delayed booking after TM was already in jail.

He would still be charged because he was obviously involved. He felt defeated but also relieved it was all going to be over soon ... hence the look on his face (as opposed to TM's) in the mug shot.

Of course... that's MOO & speculation only.


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LarkBunting said:
But, you know how to PM, right, Nugget? :-D


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Yes, and I read about it- extremely graphic and unbelievable she would take a photo of "that" and send it to ANYONE !!!!! can u say "SICK"???
 
Can someone post the Cliff Notes version of how Tammy and Sidney tie into Heather's case? I read on here earlier that Sidney apparently worked at Heather's employer, so I assume they started an affair? When was this? When did Tammy get involved? When did they start the crazy Facebook posts - was that once the media announced he was involved with HE?
 
bestill said:
I'm thinking their fb pages will disappear soon, surely their attorney's asked for all social media accounts and passwords to begin damage control.
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Agreed. That should have happened already IMO.

I've noticed that many of the "unsleuthables" put theirs on lock-down several weeks ago (a few immediately) after this all began.


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paris_paris said:
There are 3 or 4 more of her. Try this link, it works better for scrolling through. She is in the class photo on the right hand side.

http://ronsherlock.com/portfolio/socastee/index.html

Larger hiirez class image here.
http://webspace.webring.com/people/ks/socasteereunion1990/SHS90.jpg
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wow, even in 1990, she didn't look like her glam photos! She really does photo shop, I guess it pays to be a photographer!
What years was she a rock star follower? 14 years ago she was only 27??? When did TM say she got married? I remember something about 1993 but don't remember what it was.
 
Nugget said:
Hey! I wear the pants in our family - my husband will even admit it - but it's because we are young and he is irresponsible with money and decisions LOL

I hope to pass the pants back to him one day. :please::floorlaugh:
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hubby wears the pants in our family.

however, I buy, wash, dry, and pick out what pants he will.wear, when he will wear them and what he will wear with said pants.

it all works out...

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passionflower said:
wow, even in 1990, she didn't look like her glam photos! She really does photo shop, I guess it pays to be a photographer!
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The picture is from 2000 (10-year reunion) or they are the oldest-looking high schoolers ever. lol
 
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I am horrible about sighting sources but I wrote down (randomly) that TM's dad is the one who has the black f150. They impounded that one didnt they? I guess maybe it could be that the dad owns the truck but they use it OR....

Also Im seeing on ancestry that they previously had two addresses in Summerville, SC only a few miles from each other but doesnt give dates of when they lived there.

And Im sure it doesnt mean anything BUT all of the documents for TM state her middle initial as being "R" but we know its "L"
 
Nugget said:
Hey! I wear the pants in our family - my husband will even admit it - but it's because we are young and he is irresponsible with money and decisions LOL

I hope to pass the pants back to him one day. :please::floorlaugh:
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Then again nothing wrong with the woman wearing the pants in the family

...especially if the spouse is an emu as emus don't wear pants

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I think Heather gave him an ultimatum. Me or her!
He chose Heather.
I think he was leaving his wife also for her!
 
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