gitana1
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I just want to say that I know nothing about the ministry that employed Chris and I don't know anything about his dad's church either, but to believe they are involved in any way with this crime, is stretching it, imho. I mean, even his wife didn't know he was capable of murder or she would have left him a long time ago. I believe he hid this dark side of him from everyone except himself.
OTOH, Ms. Meyer better hope he doesn't know anything not above-board at his POE that COULD be going on. At this point, he's going to get desparate and try and get out of this any way he can. Turn states evidence on possible criminal behavior of anyone he knows, he may try to use it for his advantage. Not that the state would accept it, but he might try.
Nah, I don't believe anyone was in on this or aware that he was capable of such a horrendous act. IMO, I think we should leave the church out of this. I do have a problem with the way his family treated Sheri's, but then again, that's just poor human behavior and not a crime.
JMHO
fran
I have to agree with this. Again, from what we can see, one person and one person alone is responsible for this. Until I see something that shows differently, that's all we have and for now we don't have anything, IMO that remotely points to others being involved.
I'm not a big fan of any religious leader that rakes in millions. Unless they are using those millions to really help people instead of living in mansions, it makes me uncomfortable. But I see nothing pointing to JMM being involved. In fact, it looks like as soon as certain facts came out, she distanced herself immediately from Chris. (By the way, I have not yet identified a poster who supported Chris but now is pointing at JMM. I think those same posters pointed the finger at Chris from the beginning).
I also can't fault Chris's family. They were likely in shock at what had happened and could not begin to think that their own kid was responsible, let alone function and think about calling Sheri's family. For all we know,
Chris may have said, "Yes, don't worry about it. I've spoken to them." We don't know what he telling his family. Time will tell how they handle this but I will never be one to point an accusing finger at family members merely because they share genetics with a monster. It's not fair, IMO.
As I said before, these creeps are masters at hiding who they are. Are we supposed to accuse Sheri and her family and friends for not being able to determine there was a monster in their midst? If his own wife could not tell, and we've seen nothing yet to indicate she did not trust him, how can we expect others to?
The bottom line, I think, is that a crime of this magnitude is so unfathomable that for some it defies reason that one solitary person, a person who seemed so normal and sane, could be responsible alone. So, sometimes others feel that there must be someone else involved. Also, the rage and disbelief that we feel as the result of such an atrocity may make it hard for some of us to keep our anger focused. It's such a huge anger that some people allow it to spill over towards others, even innocent ones.
I think we all need to be careful and focus on the one who everything points to unless the facts show us different. So far, that['s what the majority of us have done: As most agree, there is one culprit and only one. And I really think the blame needs to reside with him alone, the man that the facts, if correct, show systematically destroyed his entire, beautiful family, without a second thought or a shred of sympathy: Chris Coleman.