Greetings lil VBride :blowkiss:
Knowing how sick his mother was, and going through with his plan, Imo she is another victim who because of all the added stress etc, the disease will be hitting her even harder now. What a loving and caring son! ...
Years ago, my son was out of order (rebellious), causing all sorts of problems in his teen years. His dad (my beloved husband) has a sudden death heart disease, which is affected by stress. I was fit to be tied. I had talked until I was blue in the face to my son (hoping to handle things without causing my husband to be stressed) -- also acted upon things to try to correct him etc., did all I knew to do as mother. My husband fathered accordingly and did the best he could. Our son was just not responding -- he was just so about his own rebellion and self will. I was becoming desperate as I saw the situation of our son's rebellion eating all of us up.
Finally, I called our darling pastor, a man who had raised 4 sons (of all manner of personality, behavior). I asked if he would please come and speak with our son. Oddly, our son did seem to have a heart of love and acceptance toward our pastor, a revere -- you couldn't help but love the man, who was of a grandfatherly age for our son, and he was so very real.
Our son did sit and listen to the pastor who was very caring, calm and reasoning. Our son did not act discourteous, but all of the thoughts probably slid off of him like water off a duck. I sat and listened, and one thing NEVER slid off my back and, although I do not know if my son can directly remember it, I watched his face and felt his spirit when he heard it.
The pastor, at one point asked, "Son, do you realize that you are driving nails in your father's coffin?"
That was such a real statement. We "can" hurt those who love us by our acts of rebellion against mankind.
I believe that Chris Coleman is driving nails in his mother's coffin. I hope that his father and others will go to him and tell him. CC can never undo what he has done, but he can stop the continuation of the horror.