Thank you for your thoughtful reply. The central question for me that you asked was- what would I have thought after reviewing T's communications with her.
I have read every single email and text and chat between them that has been made public anywhere. Even if I based my opinion on those communications alone, I can say with all honesty that there is no way I'd believe that Travis abused her or mistreated her at all.
What those communications make crystal clear is that she did in fact stalk him, stole from him, invade and violate his privacy, initiate most of their sexual encounters, ask constantly for his assistance in every way imaginable (and received it), and that she literally never left him in peace.
Nurmi knew from the very beginning,according to his own words, that his client was more interested in destroying T's reputation than in saving her own life. He knew she was manipulative, a liar, and vindictive.
He also had access early on to Flores' interviews with T's friends, so knew that aside from the killer, literally every person (large numbers) who knew Travis liked and respected him at the very least. As opposed to his client, for whom he could find no friends at all. Cognitive dissonance?
I think any objective person trying to see the truth of the matter would at the very least be deeply suspicious about any of the allegations being made by the killer, early on, from the very beginning.
I do understand the anger that everyone has with Lawrence- I have it too. Is Lawrence being objective in writing this book? I don't think so. He's trying to have people excuse him his "trespasses" because he was "only doing his job" ("and doing it well"- according to him) in the public's eye only and not because he did anything wrong and at the same time, saying "screw you all". And it's like a confession where he is dumping all this "stuff" on his readers and then saying a Hail Mary and going on his merry way because he has been absolved, in his mind. I feel this book is also like a "so there" book and "go choke yourself" after you have read it, too. Kinda screwy, huh.
I do think that Lawrence was deeply suspicious and did say that the murderer's main objective was to slander TA at all costs- even at the cost of her case. He also had a case to make out of the trash that the murderer was spouting from her mouth and he did make one, whatever it was, to do his job as her atty. He couldn't be concerned that she was a liar, etc, She was his client, for better or worse and, so be it, he made that disgusting case for her.
I do think that his initial thoughts, as he read /saw all the evidence, was just that at the time- his initial thoughts according to his experiences with his other clients. Granted, he didn't normally have texts, emails, etc.- this was something new for him- he put them all together, without any thought of just who his client is- a pycho- and just made his determination off of just TA's words, IMO.
I think, just as I have thought with the juror W. Zervakos (?), that he is of a different mindset as to how he viewed what TA had to say to the murderer- in it's ferocious attack of a woman and the things TA said to her- to him, were not something a "normal" man would say, if you will. There were very harsh/hurtful criticisms- some unforgivable words, IMO. Now, we all know that she deserved them, if you think of the whole picture and she did stalk TA, invade his privacy, etc. but Lawrence's contention is-- he still continued to see her, have sex, with her, so what does that mean? He didn't, according to the evidence he had at hand, dump her- he had sex with her, or so the pics show, up to the very time before she murdered him. Why did he keep seeing her, Lawrence says? if she did all those things, why not dump her? Why keep seeing a crazy lady? He must have liked it. Why does a person moan about how their life is horrible all the time and doesn't change it for the better or get rid of the person who is tormenting them? They must like it that way, can't get away from it, for whatever reason?
And I do know all the reasons TA didn't get rid of the murdering manipulator, even tho' he tried.
I do not think TA abused her, just as you said, but that's our opinion and Lawrence had his assessment/opinion and he did think what he thinks at the time was correct- no matter what we think, IMO. :dunno: Believe me, I'm not making any excuses for Lawrence- this is just my assessment/interpretation off of what he is saying in his book.
So as we go in circles......thanks for your thoughts.
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