Regardless if we were going through a bitter divorce, etc., my husband would NOT be scheming around to listen to phone calls, read my private mail, etc.
If anything, he's honest to a fault. When we were first married, many moons ago, I was so young, just barely 19. And we had to buy a car, used car in those days. We had a trade-in, 'even more USED car.'
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We find a car, sales guy ask's, 'what have you got to trade in?' and poor hubby says "oh nothing, it's a piece of junk, burns oil, yadda yadda yadda." Now even very young me is thinking 'this isn't the way it's supposed to work here'. Guy offers us 50 bucks for piece of junk trade in. So we go to another used car lot, and on the way there I say to hubby "You aren't supposed to diss our trade in to the guy'. 'That's what they do, they diss our trade in, not us.' I tell him, at the next place, you just give him the year, make and model of our trade in, nothing more, nothing about 'piece of junk, burns oil, etc.' So at the next place, when we say "we have a '65 Impala, four speed, hard top.' Sales guy says "we'll give you $500 bucks for it.' All this to say, 'some people just have integrity, sometimes to a fault, while others don't.' My husband can't ever sell anything of ours. He would tell you every last detail on it.
He couldn't lie if his life depended upon it.