Hi, long-time lurker here. I truly appreciate the thoughtful discussion in this forum and the wide-ranging points of view re: this case. It's given me lots of good food for thought. You all rock!
I find all of the Internet activity while the search for NC was going on simply bizarre. Having lived through the nightmare of a family member gone missing, it's hard for me to imagine being able to sit at a computer while that person's still out there, Lord knows what's happened to them, thoughts racing re: where they could possibly have gone, anxiety growing exponentially by the minute as you recount every little detail and wonder whether you've given the police all of the information you possibly can to help find them -- hopefully alive! It's a horrifying experience I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
Also, my ex- and I have been divorced for a long time, and there's certainly no love lost between us, but if (God forbid) something were ever to happen to him, it would still upset me deeply because of the pain it would cause to our children, and I would do whatever I could to help.
Just my 2 cents ...