Emma Peel
an unexpected turn of events
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The sexting "might" be damning as evidence ~ we don't even know what they have in writing from Terri. So I disagree with you there.
It also depends on your definition of "damning evidence." It depends on what "favors" she was trying to procure from the sexting activity. It depends on why she was sending those pictures.
A jury is going to be judgmental towards a woman of her age with three children. That's just human nature, no matter how feely-wheely we try to be about how sexting is okay.
Indeed, I could have mentioned any number of men: Spitzer, Tiger Woods, the Gov. of SC, etc. It is easy to point at men and call them sex addicts, adulterers, or just scumbags. If Terri was male I think that's what we'd be saying without hesitation.
But those men are not involved in a missing child case, either. And in spite of fame, they still have to answer to someone for their actions if they want to settle their divorces, gain any kind of custody, or get visitation.
Terri isn't even willing to do that, apparently. :banghead:
My previous post was about well-known women who share traits with TH, but who also aren't involved in a missing child case.
There's nothing technically wrong with being an exhibitionist since some famous people - like Lady Gaga and Madonna (both of whom I like, actually) are also exhibitionists or even Narcissists themselves, and they would both probably laugh and agree with me. There are plenty of men who fit that profile also - Arnold Schwarzenegger and others.
And body-building is rather a self-absorbed occupation, but there's nothing inherently wrong with it. Not everyone's cup of tea, but plenty of ordinary people gain self-esteem working out in the gym.
But TH also complained about Kaine at the gym, and possibly tried to kidnap her daughter from the gym. Kaine said she was also leaving her in day care at the gym for hours at a time.
And worse, Terri insisted that she took Baby K to the gym on the day Kyron disappeared in spite of an ear infection. Her. Own. Words.
So all that will be looked at by a judge. Add the sexting to that, and you get one self-absorbed woman who thought she was a "Hot Mama" and everyone wanted her. Um . . . yeah.
Nothing wrong with that, except she seems deluded and won't talk to a psychiatrist about it.
We have to look at the big picture, the way a jury will.
I agree we do have to look at the big picture.
Also, I'd like to clarify something.
To me, frankly, the sexting IS a HUGE red flag.
IMO, It means Terri is emotionally broken.
(I am willing to bet that Madonna does not send texts like this, nor does Gaga. Furthermore, their artistic personas are not their private personas. But, enough said, and I agree that with the likes of Tiger Woods, et al - you nail the emotional disease I'm thinking Terri has.)
So ...
What we know now is that Terri sexts proficiently and with abandon. IMO, she teases, leads, entices, even manipulates with sex, likely even did so prior to the time when texting was the norm. It fills the void. Very likely, Terri has been emotionally broken for a long, long time. Kaine missed it, IMO. Terri has proven a good compensator. Broken, but smart enough to compensate and blend in. A wild amazon-thing in private, but conformingly normal on the outside - IMO, she may have simply been one version of a man's fantasy.
Agree with those that point out that anyone in their right emotional mind, who is serious about a teaching career, would be mindful of keeping their private life protected and would not carry on sexting with acquaintances. Agree that the sexts are a red flag that Terri was clearly not in her emotional right mind.
While the sexts are a window into what was going on with Terri emotionally, to the state of the marriage, to the fragility of a home that was Kyron & the baby's ... IMO, they're only useful in a circumstantial evidence vein if there's actually some more evidence to put the sexts into some kind of context that point to murder.
So while I concede that the sexts are interesting circumstantial evidence, I have to say ... evidence of what? We're missing those major and meaningful pieces of evidence that make the sexts the frosting on a compelling circumstantial story-cake, IMO. Here's hoping that LE has that critical circumstantial evidence that we can frost with these sexts on top a circumstantial cake. er ... case.
IMO, the likelihood that the sexts indicate that Terri - the primary caregiver - exhibits extremely poor judgement, questionable character, gratuitous behavior, readily took risks, and was capable of engaging in any variety of high risk behaviors that young children should never be exposed to. The circles Terri moved in - with her openly casual lascivious behavior - the company that she kept "in private" - we know little about. Could they be deadly?
And therein lies a whole new world of possibilities as to the truth of what happened to Kyron. Terri doesn't have to be Kyron's killer. She might simply be the link, or worse, the catalyst.