I wonder if we're playing into the stereotype that parents who homeschool their kids seem to be more controlling and strict? I do see that stereotype played out in real life, but does it describe what I know about Savannah's parenting and education? No. Not necessarily. I think
@Steelslady does make a good point. That was a tough age. It's almost as though you want to jump out of your own skin with all the pressures and changes going on. I have to wonder that maybe she could possibly be undergoing a crisis, and just absconded to some friend's house. All the publicity would compound her into hiding further. We had a case like that once. A girl ran away, but the parents insisted she was abducted and trafficked down the I-5 corridor. Well, of course we did go into overdrive because the family insisted, and the police didn't know. Turns out, she absconded from home to be at a friends house, found out she would be in trouble for absconding and the whole thing tumbled down from there. She was too terrified to come out of hiding. We eventually found her, felt very relieved, and forgave her transgression. She was 15. What can you expect from a kid that age?