I am too. I think the key to May 26th is that stuff she wrote in her journal about john dixon and Abe. She had one of her "confession sessions" with Travis. When she left AZ, she had the one about how she had spies on him, etc. I believe that May 26th conversation was about her getting in his facebook and about him learning either from her or from someone else that she was dating and screwing around with John Dixon when Travis and she were traveling in the fall of 2007.
She keeps saying "now that I know he was dating lisa the WHOLE time..." and She said something about how she should have been able to date John Dixon because Travis was with Lisa.
Recall how Travis apparently flipped out over her and Abe. And she brought that mess to Abe's attention when Abe had forgotten all about it. Abe didn't even understand why she'd tell Travis about it. So I think she pulled another talk like that on Travis regarding John dixon. She says in her journal that he told her this is what hurt him more than the death of his father.
So now. We know she lies. So just go back and read the journal entries talking about JD and then go read their fight. See if it sounds like he's mad at her for being the *advertiser censored* she is over anything BUT sex or dating another man while "involved" with him. Or for doing it when he didn't think she was doing it. take your pick.
I could never understand why his anger at her kept going back to sexual degradation. Maybe this is why. I don't know. I'm looking for opinions.
Her journal: Password is Travis.
http://s1308.photobucket.com/user/wasnt_me/library/
ETA--
Also, recall that Travis didn't start mentioning Jodi "dating other people" until about Feb 2008. Is it possible she was dating and not telling him? Now, all she has power to do is make him jealous, so she spills all of this? I don't know.
As far as why he let her in the house--I'm thinking she told him she was giving him back his journals.
I could be wrong, but what are your thoughts?