The defense should probably be happy I'm not a juror. I'd be a lousy one. IMO, most of the sexting, etc. is background noise to me. From watching and seeing the size of the car, the location of the car seat and RH's "husky" figure, the briefcase, the parking spot at work and the light bulbs, there is NO possible or probable explanation, again IMO, for him NOT to see Cooper was in his car seat. I was willing and WAS giving RH the benefit of the doubt. People get distracted, etc. - of course, I'm of the belief that a few "hot car deaths" aren't accidents at all. But, RH must have the attention span of a gnat for this to be just an accident. Unless he put a set of horse blinders on and could only look straight forward. Even at lunch, when one opens the car door, in any sort of heat, the wave of steaming air comes right out at you. Any odor IN that vehicle comes out. The scent magnifying in the heat. You can even smell the material on the seats, the plastic or the carpet scent. A hot diaper?? WOW!! Also, maybe it's just me, but, kids have a "different" type of scent to me. So, it's basically a physics type of thing. Air bottled up, WILL leave when given an opportunity to do so, especially, when the air OUTSIDE is cooler than the air inside - such a tragedy for little Cooper.
What sealed the deal for me was JM's testimony. I had visions of Susan Smith and Diane Downs. Remember what these monsters did with their children, whom, by all accounts, they loved? We saw happy family pics, love shown and people attesting to the fact of the love these women had for their children. How could they do that? Most can't understand or get into the mindset of these people who take the life of their own baby - I can't even try to know what they think. IMO, maybe THEY don't even know what they're thinking at that time they make the decision to believe life without their child would mean freedom for them. Desperate times call for desperate measures. IMO, ones mind goes past that love and begins to look at that child as an anchor. But for that child, they'd be with so and so. Life would be skipping thru a meadow in love forever....even needing to overcome obstacles goes out of their minds - even when the reason for the action might NOT be as it appears.
People want to believe the type of monsters who do things such as these are bad men/women with scruffy beards (or a chin mole with hair coming out of it), beady eyes, bad complexion, rotten teeth and greasy hair. Susan Smith was pretty and had that cute little accent of hers. She watched while the water took the life from her little boys. Looking out that back window at her. Probably thinking "what did we do that was so bad"??
Sorry, all wolves in sheep's clothing.